"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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valentines day....

iCY

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well my parents have made me a social outkast for most of my teen life but i have finally been set free and now im lost....and confused.....
so here i am. yea ive read the bible and my problems arent really with that.

i know nothing about valentines day and one of the girls i have been DJing asked me what i was doin on valentines day. Just to give a bit of a background, ima senior and she is a freshman; it seems kind of wrong to be DJing a freshman but i guess when u have the DJ mindset u keep up the attitude with all girls. getting back to the topic, what is so different about valentines day?

do u think i should go for it, even though the age is like 15-18? what do u suggest i do? and what are YOU planning to do on valentines day?

thanks alot, and please refrain from stupid non-helpful answers(remember, i know nothing of this matter =o)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hendrix

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Uhh, that's illegal sir.
 

iCY

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actually im not 18 till a month or 2 so yea i rounded it off
 

AlexTheGreat

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if she's your type, and you're both interested, why not ? Who the hell cares if she's 3 years younger ... it's not like you're a senior in life lol, just do you thing and that's it that's all.
 

Mr. Debonaire

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Originally posted by iCY
actually im not 18 till a month or 2 so yea i rounded it off
CHEATER!!! lol

if its going to be illegal in 2 months, dont plan on making an LTR out of it
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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