"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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valentines day....

iCY

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well my parents have made me a social outkast for most of my teen life but i have finally been set free and now im lost....and confused.....
so here i am. yea ive read the bible and my problems arent really with that.

i know nothing about valentines day and one of the girls i have been DJing asked me what i was doin on valentines day. Just to give a bit of a background, ima senior and she is a freshman; it seems kind of wrong to be DJing a freshman but i guess when u have the DJ mindset u keep up the attitude with all girls. getting back to the topic, what is so different about valentines day?

do u think i should go for it, even though the age is like 15-18? what do u suggest i do? and what are YOU planning to do on valentines day?

thanks alot, and please refrain from stupid non-helpful answers(remember, i know nothing of this matter =o)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hendrix

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Uhh, that's illegal sir.
 

iCY

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actually im not 18 till a month or 2 so yea i rounded it off
 

AlexTheGreat

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if she's your type, and you're both interested, why not ? Who the hell cares if she's 3 years younger ... it's not like you're a senior in life lol, just do you thing and that's it that's all.
 

Mr. Debonaire

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Originally posted by iCY
actually im not 18 till a month or 2 so yea i rounded it off
CHEATER!!! lol

if its going to be illegal in 2 months, dont plan on making an LTR out of it
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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