"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I bought tickets to a comedy show for vday is this enough or should I get my gf of nine months a card also. Also her interest level is some where between 57 to 60%
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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comedy show should be enough. Maybe give her some chocolate if you want, just don't over do it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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geemun33 said:
I bought tickets to a comedy show for vday is this enough or should I get my gf of nine months a card also. Also her interest level is some where between 57 to 60%
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57% seems like a pretty exact number! I would just use a scale of 1-10.
 
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geemun33 said:
Also her interest level is some where between 57 to 60%
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Her interest level (or any women for that matter) should not matter to you. The question should be whether or not YOU are interested in her.
 
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Her interest level (or any women for that matter) should not matter to you. The question should be weather or not YOU are interested in her.
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Well it does matter in the sense that if you have made your move and she does not show any interest you know it is time to move on to the next.
 
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Starwolf said:
Well it does matter in the sense that if you have made your move and she does not show any interest you know it is time to move on to the next.
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True in this case. However, you should not be a woman-pleaser. Turn the tables around and have them please you.
 
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