I don't know what your Valentine's Day has been like but mine has been the scariest I could imagine. I'm still in shock as I'm typing this. I thought today was going to be just another Valentine's Day. I was going to have brunch with my family, go for a mini-Valentine's Day date with a girl I'd known for a while, and then probably hook up with my friends for a small party, just the 12 of us. Well... brunch with my family was as expected. We exchanged gifts, had something to eat in Cal, I then parted. But the date shocked the hell out of me:
I went home after brunch, watched TV, freshed myself up and then left to meet my date. Keep in mind, I've known this girl for about half a year. She was in one of my econ classes at the start of the year, we talked, she was cute and I knew she was attracted to me. But I never took it a step further. Since then, we've talked to each other fairly often and I've run into her at the Student Halls or libraries before classes as I'm finishing up my homework, I'm pretty sure she wasn't there "by coincidence," even though I thought she was cute, I never took it any step further because I wasn't looking for a relationship and she was, she's the more conservative type. So I was nice, I talked to her, but nothing ever happened between us, nonetheless, I knew she was definitely attracted to me (had a crush on me) based on the way she'd look at me. Well, Valentine's Day I received a rose (well, three), but one of them was from her, a red rose with gold-tipped petals and a letter saying:
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Happy Valentine's Day [MVP]
From A Very Special Admirer
XXX
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[Btw., the "XXX" was just "XXX," not a name or anything]
Well, she called me at the end of the day, she had my number from group projects we did last semester, and she asked if I got her rose "you know, the gold tipped one," I was pretty shocked/surprised and I said "yeah, that was you?" "Of course, cutie" she said and we talked for a minute, after a minute she said she "would really love to see you this Saturday."So I agreed, I hadn't really planned on any particular date this Valentine and I was up for a low-key "date."
Fast Forward to a couple hours ago...
We met at a restaurant, it was packed but she had reservations and we ate on the patio. We talked, we had a great conversation but I was definitely uncomfortable because she seemed very into me, she didn't say anything major or show it strongly externally, but she seemed extremely interested in me and I felt she was very attracted to me and was trying not to show it and play it cool. After we finished eating she offered to pay, I said I'd pay but she insisted. politely, saying she "really really want[ed] to pay for it." She then insisted we went to a park but I said I had plans scheduled, there was almost a desperate look in her eyes and she asked me to please come with her. So I did, at this point I was getting pretty damn worried what was going to happen. Well, once we were in the park, after we talked for a while, she started talking to me about the future, where I saw myself being, she then made some ambiguous references to seeing me in the future with her. Then she proposed to me...
I went home after brunch, watched TV, freshed myself up and then left to meet my date. Keep in mind, I've known this girl for about half a year. She was in one of my econ classes at the start of the year, we talked, she was cute and I knew she was attracted to me. But I never took it a step further. Since then, we've talked to each other fairly often and I've run into her at the Student Halls or libraries before classes as I'm finishing up my homework, I'm pretty sure she wasn't there "by coincidence," even though I thought she was cute, I never took it any step further because I wasn't looking for a relationship and she was, she's the more conservative type. So I was nice, I talked to her, but nothing ever happened between us, nonetheless, I knew she was definitely attracted to me (had a crush on me) based on the way she'd look at me. Well, Valentine's Day I received a rose (well, three), but one of them was from her, a red rose with gold-tipped petals and a letter saying:
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Happy Valentine's Day [MVP]
From A Very Special Admirer
XXX
-----------------------------------------
[Btw., the "XXX" was just "XXX," not a name or anything]
Well, she called me at the end of the day, she had my number from group projects we did last semester, and she asked if I got her rose "you know, the gold tipped one," I was pretty shocked/surprised and I said "yeah, that was you?" "Of course, cutie" she said and we talked for a minute, after a minute she said she "would really love to see you this Saturday."So I agreed, I hadn't really planned on any particular date this Valentine and I was up for a low-key "date."
Fast Forward to a couple hours ago...
We met at a restaurant, it was packed but she had reservations and we ate on the patio. We talked, we had a great conversation but I was definitely uncomfortable because she seemed very into me, she didn't say anything major or show it strongly externally, but she seemed extremely interested in me and I felt she was very attracted to me and was trying not to show it and play it cool. After we finished eating she offered to pay, I said I'd pay but she insisted. politely, saying she "really really want[ed] to pay for it." She then insisted we went to a park but I said I had plans scheduled, there was almost a desperate look in her eyes and she asked me to please come with her. So I did, at this point I was getting pretty damn worried what was going to happen. Well, once we were in the park, after we talked for a while, she started talking to me about the future, where I saw myself being, she then made some ambiguous references to seeing me in the future with her. Then she proposed to me...