"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Valentine's Day Confusion

WORKEROUTER

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Tomorrow is V-Day, and I have done absolutely nothing. My gf made a reservation at some fairly expensive seafood restaurant. Anyway, the entrees are around 20-30 dollars, and I'm really not too wealthy. Should I suggest a more casual restaurant (and although seafood is good, I have a voracious appetite..personally, I like Italian)? Also, what about splitting the bill?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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wiggadude

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Definitely get reservations at Mc Donalds, dude.

Originally posted by WORKEROUTER
Tomorrow is V-Day, and I have done absolutely nothing. My gf made a reservation at some fairly expensive seafood restaurant. Anyway, the entrees are around 20-30 dollars, and I'm really not too wealthy. Should I suggest a more casual restaurant (and although seafood is good, I have a voracious appetite..personally, I like Italian)? Also, what about splitting the bill?
 

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She made the reservation.

She pays.

If thats to harsh for you. Dont have any entrees that might ease the bill a bit and split it then.
 

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Offer to cook some dinner (pasta or even some fish) instead of dining out, as it will be more intimate. Not to mention, way cheaper for you. Anyone can take someone out to dinner, but not anyone is willing to cook for someone else. Have the two of you prepare the meal together. Hard work deserves hard play ;)
 

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opps... darn.. I forgot my wallet .
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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