"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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vacations ideas ?

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georgie24

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I need 3-4 days away from here, 35 y/o and will be traveling alone, were can i go to relax and not look like a lonley creep, im thinking south beach or a cruise.

your input is needed soldiers, im dying here
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Go somewhere YOU wanna go. Ignore the boilerplate suggestions of popular culture - this is for YOU, not them.

What do you like to do? What are your interests? That should drive your choice of destination.

Next, logistics: what are your travel/financial/physical limitations? That will determine how big you can go.

If you want solitude then I'd recommend a long weekend of hiking/bicycling/motorcycling with overnight camping at the end of each day.

You could also look into any paintball tournaments nearby if you really want to be physcially active and still be around people.

Also think about a major museum that caters to your interests.

Or, find a local historical reenactment group and see if you can observe their activities for a weekend.

Are there any conventions in your city or nearby that interest you?

Again, I don't know the specifics of what you like, but do something that will YOU will enjoy. Don't just try and escape your current situation, MAKE a great experience and memory out of this vacation, and then build on that.

Good luck,

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I highly suggest New Orleans.

It is a very nice time away, with tons of activities to do. Even if you just wander around the Quarter, the time will fly. And every day and night is mardi gras on Bourbon, which is lined with strip clubs and $5 hurricanes stands that you can drink as you walk around the town.

If you want more sustenance, there is a ton of history in that city, and is a photographer's paradise.

It is a southern city, so also expect that refreshing, relaxing slow and take it easy vibe everywhere you go. The weather is in the upper 80's right now.

Depending on where you are, it is a short plane ride, and not very expensive either. You can get a very nice hotel on hotwire in the French Quarter for less than $60 if you allow 3 weeks advance planning.
 
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