I'm 22 (virgin), never had a girlfriend or other close contact with women. Anyway I'm currently staying in Italy for a month (attending a language course) and I decided to change this. I figured it would be easier to make change here as there are no anchors which remind me of my old self. Anyway, my only goal here is to get laid. However I haven't had any success yet. I've read the dj bible and stuff but I'm still not sure how to meet girls here. I can't seem to find many static targets. Also I am not sure what to say. I only speak very little Italian (can do introduction and stuff).
I did approach a girl on the train station who was working there promoting some beer, asking her if I can invite her for a Peroni (the beer they were promoting) or cup of coffee but I got turned down.
Also been to some clubs yesterday. Took me a while to get over the inhibitions as I never been in one before and I am doing all this by myself. But I didn't meet any women or even got any eye contact. The most female attention I got, was a girl on a cell phone asking me for the time (I think). Funny, as I always considered myself fairly good looking.
I've had some problems staying positive lately, which I know is vital. I think this is really sad, there are like 3 billion women out there, and in almost 23 years I didn't manage to spend a few minutes with even one of them.
Any suggestions are appreciated. I'm determined to do whatever it takes to change this situation.
I did approach a girl on the train station who was working there promoting some beer, asking her if I can invite her for a Peroni (the beer they were promoting) or cup of coffee but I got turned down.
Also been to some clubs yesterday. Took me a while to get over the inhibitions as I never been in one before and I am doing all this by myself. But I didn't meet any women or even got any eye contact. The most female attention I got, was a girl on a cell phone asking me for the time (I think). Funny, as I always considered myself fairly good looking.
I've had some problems staying positive lately, which I know is vital. I think this is really sad, there are like 3 billion women out there, and in almost 23 years I didn't manage to spend a few minutes with even one of them.
Any suggestions are appreciated. I'm determined to do whatever it takes to change this situation.