"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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marlboro

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Cordoncordon - to answer your question she has talked to me on the phone nearly every day since going away, and sent texts saying she loves and misses me, etc.

Thanks for the other comments. I expect that when she gets back I'll ask her for all or nothing.

As for going and banging other chicks without telling her, I won't be doing that, and I thought that that wasnt what being a DJ was about?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Centaurion

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Just get her tested for STDs.

The girlfriend of a friend got porked in all holes by egyptian dudes when she was on vacation there. She never told him about it until some nasty ass genetial warts started growing on his d!ck. And then she was like 'Ooooh sorry about that.".

You never know whos been porking your girl up the ass. Get her tested and don't fvck her until you get the results back.
 

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marlboro said:
Cordoncordon - to answer your question she has talked to me on the phone nearly every day since going away, and sent texts saying she loves and misses me, etc.

Thanks for the other comments. I expect that when she gets back I'll ask her for all or nothing.

As for going and banging other chicks without telling her, I won't be doing that, and I thought that that wasnt what being a DJ was about?
Welcome to the Forums mate....There is more info here than you could possible need. Plus you have done the right thing in asking questions if you have an issue.

Personally i know what your going threw....I had the same kind of agreement with one of my ex's.

This is what you need to do.....Dont worry. Worrying is the worst thing to do. It bring on insecurity and paranoia. You need to play it cool. The above shows she is intrested in YOU. Dont go insucure on her. Dont be bothered by it.

I made the mistake of doing the oppersite. I went para and thats why i said it was one of my ex's and not a current gf.

For all you know she may have forgotten the whole vaction rule or she may not be acting on it...

Just keep cool.....dont let it get to you....i know....easy to see. But its the best move and will help you develop self control.

Any other problems....dont hesitate to ask.


Sarge On!
 
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