"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"vacation rule"

marlboro

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Cordoncordon - to answer your question she has talked to me on the phone nearly every day since going away, and sent texts saying she loves and misses me, etc.

Thanks for the other comments. I expect that when she gets back I'll ask her for all or nothing.

As for going and banging other chicks without telling her, I won't be doing that, and I thought that that wasnt what being a DJ was about?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Just get her tested for STDs.

The girlfriend of a friend got porked in all holes by egyptian dudes when she was on vacation there. She never told him about it until some nasty ass genetial warts started growing on his d!ck. And then she was like 'Ooooh sorry about that.".

You never know whos been porking your girl up the ass. Get her tested and don't fvck her until you get the results back.
 

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marlboro said:
Cordoncordon - to answer your question she has talked to me on the phone nearly every day since going away, and sent texts saying she loves and misses me, etc.

Thanks for the other comments. I expect that when she gets back I'll ask her for all or nothing.

As for going and banging other chicks without telling her, I won't be doing that, and I thought that that wasnt what being a DJ was about?
Welcome to the Forums mate....There is more info here than you could possible need. Plus you have done the right thing in asking questions if you have an issue.

Personally i know what your going threw....I had the same kind of agreement with one of my ex's.

This is what you need to do.....Dont worry. Worrying is the worst thing to do. It bring on insecurity and paranoia. You need to play it cool. The above shows she is intrested in YOU. Dont go insucure on her. Dont be bothered by it.

I made the mistake of doing the oppersite. I went para and thats why i said it was one of my ex's and not a current gf.

For all you know she may have forgotten the whole vaction rule or she may not be acting on it...

Just keep cool.....dont let it get to you....i know....easy to see. But its the best move and will help you develop self control.

Any other problems....dont hesitate to ask.


Sarge On!
 
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