Bryce556
Senior Don Juan
hey everyone, so i am in chicago at the moment on a trip i was slected for. there a few girls here and i was doing great so far. I made myself known to the girls from the start. and right from the begining I was the only guy who approched the girls and chatted and sat with them and stuff and started my DJ game with several. its with a school like group most of the others are more AFC.
So as it is now 5 days in all the HB5-6's are like in love with me. and the only probelm ive been having is with the two HB8's that ive had my eye on, they were one of the first few girls i met got great prograss with them, had them seeming to really like me taking photos and all. one girl was getting close to me and i had my arm around her and held her hand a few times.
However this is how it goes. with BOTH these gril over the net few days i dont know if i changed somthing in my way i treated them or what happened but they started to become "uncofortable" with my accoding to one of their friends like when i try and kino and stuff, when the kino was going great for me before now its making them uncomforable or creeped out? Or maybe im being a bit "clingy" accoring to other outside veiwers too.
they both stoped sitting with me on the bus, calling me on the room to room phones or following me around, it feels as if though roles have been changed and somhow i have become the one chaseing them. I dont want to seem AFC and chase them like the ton of the other guys folowing them around and being very "nice guy" and AFC to them 24/7. these seem the type of girls that back at home have males flocking to them at all times for their every need.
My question is i was doing well before, what happened? How can i regain control of the situation?, how should i proceed? And also how can i further set myself apart from these other AFC's who are now becoming more brave and confident after spending more time around them over the 5 days?
what I have done in response to their new reaction to me thinking its awkward or creepy, or im clingy is to back off almost totally, i stoped the kino and hanging around with them as much, tried my best to decresse my intrest in them and stuff like that, generally backed off. okay long post sorry but any answers?
So as it is now 5 days in all the HB5-6's are like in love with me. and the only probelm ive been having is with the two HB8's that ive had my eye on, they were one of the first few girls i met got great prograss with them, had them seeming to really like me taking photos and all. one girl was getting close to me and i had my arm around her and held her hand a few times.
However this is how it goes. with BOTH these gril over the net few days i dont know if i changed somthing in my way i treated them or what happened but they started to become "uncofortable" with my accoding to one of their friends like when i try and kino and stuff, when the kino was going great for me before now its making them uncomforable or creeped out? Or maybe im being a bit "clingy" accoring to other outside veiwers too.
they both stoped sitting with me on the bus, calling me on the room to room phones or following me around, it feels as if though roles have been changed and somhow i have become the one chaseing them. I dont want to seem AFC and chase them like the ton of the other guys folowing them around and being very "nice guy" and AFC to them 24/7. these seem the type of girls that back at home have males flocking to them at all times for their every need.
My question is i was doing well before, what happened? How can i regain control of the situation?, how should i proceed? And also how can i further set myself apart from these other AFC's who are now becoming more brave and confident after spending more time around them over the 5 days?
what I have done in response to their new reaction to me thinking its awkward or creepy, or im clingy is to back off almost totally, i stoped the kino and hanging around with them as much, tried my best to decresse my intrest in them and stuff like that, generally backed off. okay long post sorry but any answers?