"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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As usual life is funny and there is no hiding from the game. I d pretty much gone Monk to try and knock off some goals I'm close to achieving before the year winds down.

One of my big goals is fitness and weight loss so I'm playing a lot of sports at the moment. And of course my special personal weakness is Chinese girls.

So I'm playing The Last Game of badminton last night with this Malay Chinese chick. Good effort we beat two strong male players. Me being me of course I'm busting her chops a little bit during the game. Telling her in Mandarin that she needs a smaller tiger when she hits shots out. Calling in the big boss in Chinese when she s trying to tell me what to do. My usual schtick. So she's probably aware that I'm not an AFC.

Anyway long story short she asks me for a tennis lesson and gives me her number. Now she is a sporty chick so I'm sure this is just about Tennis. But I did test the waters a little bit. Said she had to take me to a nice Malaysian restaurant as my reward. And she said it might be easier if she cooked for me. I asked her where she was staying and said I would pick her up she had no problem with that. I said there is a university in near my place with tennis courts and some nice lakeswe could walk around and she was cool with that.

I was a bit stunned I'm not normally lucky and things don't often just fall into my lap. Sorry guys I should have initiated a bit of kino on the spot and tried to get a read.

Anyway for the moment let's just assume she's the most naive girl in the world and is just being friendly. But of course I will man up and give it a crack.

The question is how hard to chase. She said she's leaving in 2 weeks.

A lot of the DJ tactics are based around giving time for her hamster to spin. Watch this is a bit different because it isn't cast as a date and of course there is a time constraint and as it gets closer to departure she's probably going to be more interested in shopping than some random guy.

So I'm wondering if I send her some funny text and then ask her out 1 night during the week for a quick date. Probably just playing it is a friendly guy and try a little bit of lights Kino.

And then of course go for the kill on the weekend. Or am I better off staying cool and leaving it a whole week?

So it's really around how to operate when you've got a time constraint with a girl mixed up with a bit of escaping the friend zone in case this chick really is just slow on the uptake.

Although to be honest the chance of a Chinese Malay chick being naive seems pretty darned remote. But hey maybe there is 1 in the world
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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