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Anyone doing anything special?
The GF and I will be in a SoCal desert park. We might do a stage coach ride, then a V-day dinner at the tiny town near the park. It is a 'Dark Sky' town, that sounds kind of romantic. Was thinking of going to the coast for a dinner cruise, but they wanted $600!!! At least she agreed that was outrageous.
Have fun looking at the Milky Way, or at least getting in a milky way ...
 

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That’s why men that date and are successful have already planted the seed that the best nights are done indoors ;)
Honestly I first *really* came to grips with this in the nightclub business. Ya you made huge bank on those nights, but the patrons were bigger yahoos than normal night life crowds. More drunk, more obnoxious, less cool and less calibrated.

Nevermind the higher number of drunks out driving, the inability to get an Uber, crowds everywhere of amateurs thinking they are cool…police all over…guys fighting after too much drink, sick people in the bathrooms. Ugh.

I got WAY over it in the industry. Seriously. I’d rather go out Christmas evening during the holidays, it’s relaxed, relatively few people are out, it’s a better holiday vibe to me. It’s mostly hotels that are open on Christmas but it can be a relaxing time. All good if you know where to go ;).

And I disagree about NYE and V Day being all about couples. We got lots of marauding gaggles of singles those days, being idiots often enough.

This past NYE we watched fireworks from the comfort of our bed & then went to sleep. My best girlfriend and her fiancé (who is a big bottle service patron) did the same thing we did: avoid the yahoos who were out that night.
 

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I haven't looked at porn/fapped for a while because of this video below:


There is something about this lady, that when you hear her speaking, then you don't want to look at any porn or fap. Probably because she doesn't do it either and is a good example of someone who is not doing that.
Her accent gave me a diserection, but the moment I turned off the volume my libido returned. Then the scripture came on and I switched the clip off and had a good wank.
 

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Her accent gave me a diserection, but the moment I turned off the volume my libido returned. Then the scripture came on and I switched the clip off and had a good wank.
This is a thread made by @needimprovement250 who, like me is an incel, and has issues with porn or fapping.

What was the point of that? Do you actually have something useful to contribute to this thread that can help either the OP or other hapless incels or is this just a big joke to you?

Also, what is your excuse for being that antagonistic towards that video? I have every right to feel unhappy about being incel, watch porn and fap being incel state to ease the pain (ie assuming it's valid to feel that way as a Christian, which I guess is the point of that video). Even if the OP wants to be rehabilitated or stop watching porn, that is his choice (and mine) too. However, if I go there, or he goes there, then I can get why.

However, you have no issues with real women, brag about your conquests or social value and I do not feel you have a justifyable excuse. In fact, you doing that has no meaning. If me or the OP does that, then I'm making a statement about the opposite sex based on a reaction about how they are treating me. At least there is some thread of justificaiton, even if its flawed. You, on the other hand, are not making any statement and therefore there is no purpose or issue.
 
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What was the point of that? Do you actually have something useful to contribute to this thread that can help either the OP or other hapless incels or is this just a big joke to you?
This thread is about V-day, which isn't 'virgin-day' as far as I'm aware. Go talk religious abstinence in some other thread?

This is a thread made by @needimprovement250 who, like me is an incel, and has issues with porn or fapping.
No, this is a thread by @Hamurabimbi about Valentine's Day you're trying to hijack with an anti-porn Christian crusader vid. If you think your incel buddy needs to watch that horrible video, send him a PM.
 

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This thread is about V-day, which isn't 'virgin-day' as far as I'm aware. Go talk religious abstinence in some other thread?


No, this is a thread by @Hamurabimbi about Valentine's Day you're trying to hijack with an anti-porn Christian crusader vid. If you think your incel buddy needs to watch that horrible video, send him a PM.
For someone who is successful with women, you sound like you have an axe to grind. Why would a video about fapping bother you if you are getting laid with real women?
 

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For someone who is successful with women, you sound like you have an axe to grind. Why would a video about fapping bother you if you are getting laid with real women?
I dislike you hijacking a thread with Christian anti-masturbation rhetoric.
Normal people have no issues with masturbation.
 

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But do you really have a porn addiction / pied problem or do you have a problem with women in the first place?

Chads look at porn too and they have enough women who like them naturally and they never seem to have PIED/ED problems.
That's quite a burden to put on yourself to say that you are not successful with women because of PIED/ED.

The issues with ED with a woman might be more related to the anxiety that you are not used to dealing with women in the first place and feeling nervous. Do you see someone like @GoodMan32 or @MatureDJ complaining about getting ED when they are dealing with escorts?
They probably don't just rely on escorts but likely also watch porn/fap too. If you are not dealing with real women, then you are not going to feel comfortable or feel wired, regardless of whether you watch porn or not. Therefore, what you need to do is get more experience with real women and use Viagra or some other herbals if you feel insecure about the ED issues.

I haven't looked at porn/fapped for a while because of this video below:


There is something about this lady, that when you hear her speaking, then you don't want to look at any porn or fap. Probably because she doesn't do it either and is a good example of someone who is not doing that.

Maybe if you look at this video too you'll lose the desire to look at porn or fap if anything of whatever she is saying makes any sense.

If this video does not work, then you can try the Utah thing.
I feel like I do have PIED, but it is also difficult to say with 100% accuracy since my two sexual encounters I’ve had were very unconventional. The first one was in the back seat of my car at a lookout point, it happened late at night and that day I had to get up at 5AM for work, so I was exhausted by the time we got to it. There were also other cars in that lot and some of them had their headlights on and shining into my car, so other people could see what we were doing and were probably watching us.

The second one happened during all of the pandemic lockdowns, me and a longtime friend went out for drinks and neither of us wanted to go back to our parents house that night since we both needed a break from being around them all day every single day. So we decided to just find a cheap hotel room in town so that we both could have a night away. While we were drinking, he admitted to me that he likes to watch people have sex and has done that a couple times. I joked that we’ve been friends so long that it probably wouldn’t be awkward if we did that, I had no idea he would then take that seriously. We found a hotel room and stopped by a liquor store for more drinks on the way there. By the time we get into the room, I’m about 8-10 drinks in and he tells me that he’s having a former coworker come over so that he can watch us have sex. I was not expecting to have sex that night and didn’t even have the opportunity to get myself cleaned up beforehand. So she gets there and we eventually start going at it, but again I can’t get it up. This could be from the alcohol and the fact that I had my friend staring at us from across the room if it wasn’t PIED. But since I wasn’t having any luck getting it up, I started fingering her instead and she started bleeding all over my fingers and the bed! I got off the bed and went to thoroughly clean my hands. She got dressed and left, and my friend took videos of us on his phone without our consent.

So yeah, they’re both unconventional and I do wonder if I was to try and have sex again in a completely private and relaxed environment where its just me and her if it would go better.
 

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This is a thread made by @needimprovement250 who, like me is an incel, and has issues with porn or fapping.
Actually I’m not the OP of this thread. I just came across it and replied. @Hamurabimbi is actually the one who started this thread. I also do not consider myself an incel since the incel community is so toxic and has gotten innocent people killed. A lot of people in that community are also delusional like the incel I’ve posted about on here before named Marshall Mathers the 4th (now known as DarthNihilus)

 

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I dislike you hijacking a thread with Christian anti-masturbation rhetoric.
Normal people have no issues with masturbation.
In the context that fapping IS a substitution from dealing with real women with us, and in your case it is not, that is incredibly tone deaf and selfish on your part.
 

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Actually I’m not the OP of this thread. I just came across it and replied. @Hamurabimbi is actually the one who started this thread. I also do not consider myself an incel since the incel community is so toxic and has gotten innocent people killed. A lot of people in that community are also delusional like the incel I’ve posted about on here before named Marshall Mathers the 4th (now known as DarthNihilus)

It means you want to he intimate with a woman but have challenges with that.
 

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In the context that fapping IS a substitution from dealing with real women with us, and in your case it is not, that is incredibly tone deaf and selfish on your part.
This is not about self-love.

Valentine's Day is about loving other people.

You must be thinking about May.
May is Masturbation month.jpeg
 

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Unfortunately for many men, it may as well be St. Virgin Day. :mad: :mad:
Those men do not have sufficient Game. They are not so suave.

I get laid for Valentine's Day most years. Some years I don't get laid on Valentine's Day itself but the weekend before so I count that as getting Valentine's Day pussie.
 

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I get laid for Valentine's Day most years. Some years I don't get laid on Valentine's Day itself but the weekend before so I count that as getting Valentine's Day pussie.
I started getting laid on Feb 14! (the moment I filed for divorce) :cool:
 

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I started getting laid on Feb 14! (the moment I filed for divorce) :cool:
That's why I've never gotten married. I want to keep getting laid on Valentine's Day.

It would stink to be married and not get laid on Valentine's Day.
 
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