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UTI infection maybe? PLEASE HELP!

incognito42

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I am getting desperate guys. I am going to put it all out there. I havent had sex in 2 years. My mental state is deteriorating everyday. I think the stress thhis has caused is changing who I am. I havent had sex in 2 years!

I think I "got something" from this girl. We had sex, she smelled bad down there, now I smell bad down there. Very bad, like raw fish. I didnt go the doctor for 1 year out of fear and embarrasment. Now Ive been to 2 doctors, both todl me I had jock itch. they give me cream to use. I use it. I used it a lot towards the tip of my penis because it seemed worst there. Then all of a sudden I started feeling a burning sensation when I pee, and my urine smells extra strong. Also my urine and sperm feel thin, almost water like (I do smoke weed but have never had this problem before the burning and strong smelling urine came). But I had my urine tested when I went to a Urologist and he didnt tell me anything about a UTI infection.

So the smell from the jock itch STILL REMAINS, after much $$ spent on cream and doctor trips. I am a struggling college student and cant afoord this. I am too asmed and afraid to have sex. I refuse to. I feel like Im not getting help from doctors. I dont know what to do anymore. Its been 2 years and I havent had sex because of this "smell" and now this possible UTI infection and it doesnt make sense. What should I do? I am too frustrated and depressed to keep going back to the doctors, plus I cant afford it. So I just wallow in my own sorrow
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Just to illustrate how bad things are...Im failing out of college, I am about to lose my job, and my relationship with my family has become very strained. I know it all comes back to this. I cant have sex. I treat it like I have AIDS, because I dont know what the problem is but I know there is one. My life is in a downspiral and I need to get this fixed, or at the very least find out definitively that I have AIDS or some other kind of serious problemand go on with my life without all these confusion and not knowing.

I know that all these things in my life will be better when I get this fixed. I have no ambition or motivation, because I get NO PVSSY
 

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That last statement is kind of sad... but regardless

If you're strained financially to solve your health problem with your penis, ask your family. If there is one thing you should not cheap out on, it's your health.

Do you have health insurance? If so, go to multiple doctors for just regular checkups and see what they all have to say, your insurance should reduce the cost down to something insignificant. If you don't have insurance, this is a good time to get it.

If you don't have money for insurance, it comes back to what I said earlier, ask for help from your family.

I am not sure if this is the kind of advice you were looking for, you might have been looking for one us to diagnose your symptoms and whatnot. You need to get real though, this is online, without any visual images, without any immediate feedback, the actual smell and whatnot. I doubt anyone of us is qualified to help you, but even if there is, it's really ineffective to do it over the internet.

So my advice:
Get insurance if you don't have any, ask family for financial assistance if necessary, go to several doctors and see what their diagnose is, act from there.

Now, you wrote that you've been to 2 doctors already and they both suggested you use this cream. Did you really use the cream as they directed? If so mention everything next time you go to the doctor.
 

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No joke.. take a bath and see if it relaxes you. Maybe because you have been so stressed out you got some pelvic muscle problems. This is when the muscles contract too much and thus give you an irritation.
 

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If you've been to 2 doctors I am not sure why they cant figure it out. IF you think it is a UTI, you can take cranberry pills and cranberry juice. And I mean REAL CRANBERRY juice, and not the concentrated stuff.

There are also a few supplements out there for this type of thing. The Cranberry will be extracted for what you need to help with things like that.

The best would be the capsules though. And if it is a UTI, you should feel it burn when you pee.

http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/urinary-tract-infection/DS00286

The biggest thing though, that caught me off guard was you are Male, and most of the time, this happens to Females. This is why you will see it under women's health when you search about it. If it is males, this usually happens at age 50 and above

My guess is that if you read over the stuff in the link I gave and that isn't you, you dont have a UTI and you have something else.

Read this as well and PAY ATTENTION to the sex stuff in there.

http://menshealth.about.com/cs/lifestyle/a/urinary_tract.htm
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Did the doctors do a blood and urine test on you?

Did you explain to them you think you got this from a chick you had sex with?

Were the doctors both urologists that specialize in this sort of problem?

Have you asked the doctors if seeing a dermatologist might be necessary?

Do you eat a lot of sugary sweet foods and drink a lot of sugary drinks that can feed a fungus or yeast like this?

The last question I gave is because to me this sounds like its a fungus or yeast, possibly candida.

Maybe its something else altogether.
 

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You could have something like an yeast infection. Although i dont really see how it would last for so long, it is possible if you didnt treat it right.

If you havent tried it yet, ask your doctor for "fluconazole". Its a strong antifungal and you take just one pill and in a couple of days the infection will be gone(if thats what it is).


I had a pretty severe infection "down there" and it was the most miserable 2 weeks of my life, i tried the creams and they didnt do sh1t, but that pill cleared me right up.

At least try it, its usually prescribed for vaginal yeast infections, but it will still work for guys if its fungal-related.
If that fails try a course of antibiotics, in case infection is bacterial.

Good luck.
 

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Is this story a continuation of this?

Anyway, go back to your doctor. Tell him exactly what you've told us. Remember, the doctor is there to HELP you, not JUDGE you. The doctor sees patients and conditions lot worse and more embarrassing than yours. He/she is not going to point and laugh at you or get disgusted by your condition. In reality, they will be amazed by the complexity of your problem and will be very interested in it.

I know that all these things in my life will be better when I get this fixed. I have no ambition or motivation, because I get NO PVSSY
This is a very bad attitude to have. DO NOT DEPEND SOLELY ON SEX FOR YOUR HAPPINESS. Your problems won't fix themselves because YOU won't do anything about it to fix them. Your problems won't fix themselves if you go have sex. Yes, getting laid can give you confidence and motivation BUT it will only last temporarily. Trust me on this. You'll be back here in six months making another "i'm depressed again" thread.
 
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