"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Using Wardrobe changes, working out, cosmetic surgery, 100’s of posed pictures and women as a cure

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If a person is mentally ill they need a therapist. Not to be given self-serving “advice” from the “helpful” such as wardrobe changes, working out, cosmetic surgery, and women as a “cure” for what’s wrong with them. None of that advice is going to make their mental illness just up and vanish. It’s the same as trying to put lipstick on a pig and then patting yourself on the back for it.


The same person offering such advice would need a therapist themselves. Perhaps a two for one deal.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Some situations are hopeless cases...this is why we screen. They don't lock people up anymore for being clinically insane.

However, if there is a verified history of progress and growth, this would be the exception.
 

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Some situations are hopeless cases...this is why we screen. They don't lock people up anymore for being clinically insane.

However, if there is a verified history of progress and growth, this would be the exception.
We can tell how well the screening process is working out in the SS Cuckoo bird mental aviary.

I've often wondered if the wealth of insanity infesting this site is more than enough so that Bernie Sanders himself would demand those posters share it with the "underprivileged".
 

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We can tell how well the screening process is working out in the SS Cuckoo bird mental aviary.

I've often wondered if the wealth of insanity infesting this site is more than enough so that Bernie Sanders himself would demand those posters share it with the "underprivileged".
Yes, it's as common as dirt or air.

It does have entertainment value though...just... 'from a distance'.

As long as it doesn't effect my life in a direct way, I can laugh!:p
 
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