"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Using Voice tone/bass to attract women

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xeon

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hello, i have read that using voice tone adds to your arsenal.
For example, david deangelo's books tells us to use a unrushed, clear, resonant voice when we talk to display our confidence.

i was wondering if there are any tips on this site ( i already did a search and couldn't find any) or anyone can share their advice on having a more attractive voice to allure women?


although using a confident unrushed speech maybe attractive, this in the women's view does not display interest towards her if we talk like that, this works both ways if u want the girl to know you like her.

now, i heard from those cosmo mags that guy's voice are usually more rushed or changed when they talk to a woman they desire (lol someone is giving away all our info to women to use against us!) haha

I don't know how to really resonant your voice, sometimes my voice is low and sometimes it feels higher than usual.

btw, i have the deepest voice compared to most of my friends.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Every chick is different, but I have noticed if you give your voice a raspy quailty to it, most of them soften up like butter, take it down real quiet so she has to actually listen to what you have to say, and practice using a deep voice when yoiu talk, makes them want you!
 

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yea there is a pretty good articles that you can get to from sosuave.com, youll just have to look for it.
 

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