i played it real cool this week. i got one girl i met at a computer lab..she added me on facebook right away. i got an IOI from a girl in my college history class and we talked on the bus for 10 minutes straight. she tried to give me her number, but my phone wouldn't press the numbers correctly. couldn't get it, but i still played cool. she sent me the number through facebook. however, all these girls that are giving me interest are cool...they laugh at my jokes..give me the eye contact and smile constantly...BUT i hit oneities..this girl from my anthro class is real cute. i sit next to her in class and i barely get the chance to talk to her because the professor is lecturing. its in the front, so its kind of difficult. i managed to talk to her and get to know her better ( i.e name, location, major) by scurring with her when class ended. just as i started the convo going, she starts walking faster, and i had no choice but to say bye. any suggestions?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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