Using the kino rule 1 step foreward, 2 steps back in conversation.

[Scars]

I was experimenting with this last night. If you could use this rule for kino, why not apply this into conversation? I was talking to a hottie last night, and it started off with normal conversation. (Mind you this was the first time I talked to her.) Beginning with small talk, mostly music. I wanted to make a little more heat with the conversation, so I dropped a simple compliment. (No C+F, no bs. Just a genuine compliment to let her know I was interested.) She gave a big huge smile, and told me 'Awh, you make me smile'. The next thing out of my mouth was something about a movie, quickly deverting the conversation. She gave a weird look, but kept on with the conversation and my new topic. Building off that for awhile, I change the topic to partys. I ask her if she can be a wild girl and she replied with "I can be". I ask her if she thinks she can keep up with me, and she basically challenges me to a drink off the next time we can hang out. I say, "Okay, beer for beer. Shot for shot?". Next thing out of her mouth is "Okay, shirt for shirt". I tell her, alright we have a deal. Again, I dummy down the conversation again. I then build it back up with the topic of us hanging out soon. She tells me she can't wait to get me naked, I laugh and tell her I have to go. I Smile, and exit.

So basically if you use the same principels to kino as you do in conversation, it can get a girl hott really quick. It keeps the conversation alive, and it makes them almost inticipate what you're going to say next. They pay a lot more attention to what you have to say and it will sky rocket her IL.

 

[snowdog]

I don't really know what you're saying here.

 

[j0n024]

He basically said use a push/pull method and play with the girl's emotions, I dont know what the fuvck he's talking about with kino since he didnt touch her the whole time.

 

[Infamous_Wolf]

What he was trying to say was the same kind of two steps forward, one step back concept that is normally applied to kino may also be applied in a conversation. Drop a compliment, then take a step back, divert the convo elsewhere, take it two more steps forward with the "wild girl" comment, challenging her to prove it, then take it down again. At the end you'll bring it back up with suggestion of hanging out again soon. It's a nice tip.

 

[snowdog]

The thing is, when I would try to do that push/pull trick, I would start to think too much and become uncomfortable.

 

[Infamous_Wolf]

The thing is, when I would try to do that push/pull trick, I would start to think too much and become uncomfortable.

Nothing is ever easy at first. The thing about conversations though, there's practially nothing thinking will ever do for you during such a conversation. it's about feeling. You need to feel the flow of the conversation. the flow, the feeling, comes with knowledge and experience. and the only way to get knowledge or experience in this field is to go out there an do it.

 

[snowdog]

Yea, i know. I get out a lot, plus i have a job in a store where i talk to people all day. I'm a social animal.