Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Using Palmstry and Opinion Openers

drchristiantroy

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Hey, I was wondering how I could incorporate using palmastry,handwriting analysis,magic tricks, etc. when I am talking to a chick. I am totally clueless on how to deliver this without trying to sound like I am manipulating the person. The best I could think of is to ask her what she likes to do. Then when she asks back say magic, or I am learning do handwriting analysis.

Also, I have alot of trouble figuring out how I should deliver an opinion opener without sounding desperate for conversation or weird. Like I am not good at holding conversations with women. It just seems like walking up to a girl the first thing that comes out of your mouth is "Do you think David Bowie is hot" would make you sound wierd.

Any advice would be helpful...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Doggystyle

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Ask every person know " do you think david bowie is hot?" ha ha

where did this ****e even come from! what a fooking crap opener, i wrote better openers on the toilet paper today when i had a **** that just wouldn't wipe!
 

drchristiantroy

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Ok.. The David Bowie one is cheesy

I got that one from a free audio seminar that you got when you subscribe to the Real Social Dynamics Newsletter.

I am generally talking about any opinion opener. I know that a true master doesn't use routines, they are more or less training wheels. I have to start somewhere.
 

Doggystyle

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drchristiantroy said:
I got that one from a free audio seminar that you got when you subscribe to the Real Social Dynamics Newsletter.

I am generally talking about any opinion opener. I know that a true master doesn't use routines, they are more or less training wheels. I have to start somewhere.
Sorry dude, i'm in one of those moods, argumentitive and mostly tw@ish!

There aren't any "true masters" by the way! thats the way most of the marketing of the news letters tries to makes you think. don't get sucked into it all! i'll try to reply properly tomorrow properly!
 

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Going about this all wrong

If you just run up and <CHEESY SMILE> Hey, guys, wanna see a magic trick?", then you're going to sound like some kind of pedophile!!!

Actually, the David Bowie thing isn't all that weird. Don't run across the room and say it, but if you happen to be next to some girls, just tap them and say it. I really don't like something scripted. If you do use it, don't know it word for word, just roughly know what you will say. It has to be delivered somewhat naturally, like you just thought of it while standing there, and it shouldn't be said in a deadly serious manner. The less you stress over this stuff, the better.

The idea is to start having natural convos. Think of something funny and then use that with the people around you. That's where the idea for a lot of these "opinion openers" originally came from anyway. The more props and sh1t you have, the further away you're getting from your actual goal which is to actually be interesting yourself. You don't need magic tricks for the local bar and grill. Palm reading is a nice touch. As far as memorizing hours and hours of scripted material, that's really desperate, and I hope you won't fall into that trap.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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