"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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using optimism and motivation on chicks.

JJ109

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I have a great outlook on life and I love to share my thoughts on life to people whether it be girls or guys....I'm only 19 it might be hard for other people my age to appreciate what I say. Does showing optimism and showing love for life make you look cheesy and boring?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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^Posts 666, lol.

Anyways, yes, seeming/being happy and smiling and acting like you're having a great time will make people WANT and TRY to be around you, men and women. Think about it for a few minutes. You know that guy who is a total loner, wears dark and weird clothes all the time, long hair to hide his face, do you want to be around that guy? Fvck no! But how about the guy who talks to everyone, jokes with everyone and obviously has a good sense of humor, and respects people but also has respect FROM people? Of course you want to be around that guy, he's the fvcking man!

So, who are you going to be?
 

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Jhcl4000 said:
^Posts 666, lol.

Anyways, yes, seeming/being happy and smiling and acting like you're having a great time will make people WANT and TRY to be around you, men and women. Think about it for a few minutes. You know that guy who is a total loner, wears dark and weird clothes all the time, long hair to hide his face, do you want to be around that guy? Fvck no! But how about the guy who talks to everyone, jokes with everyone and obviously has a good sense of humor, and respects people but also has respect FROM people? Of course you want to be around that guy, he's the fvcking man!

So, who are you going to be?
that fvcking man.
 
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