Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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using optimism and motivation on chicks.

JJ109

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I have a great outlook on life and I love to share my thoughts on life to people whether it be girls or guys....I'm only 19 it might be hard for other people my age to appreciate what I say. Does showing optimism and showing love for life make you look cheesy and boring?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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^Posts 666, lol.

Anyways, yes, seeming/being happy and smiling and acting like you're having a great time will make people WANT and TRY to be around you, men and women. Think about it for a few minutes. You know that guy who is a total loner, wears dark and weird clothes all the time, long hair to hide his face, do you want to be around that guy? Fvck no! But how about the guy who talks to everyone, jokes with everyone and obviously has a good sense of humor, and respects people but also has respect FROM people? Of course you want to be around that guy, he's the fvcking man!

So, who are you going to be?
 

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Jhcl4000 said:
^Posts 666, lol.

Anyways, yes, seeming/being happy and smiling and acting like you're having a great time will make people WANT and TRY to be around you, men and women. Think about it for a few minutes. You know that guy who is a total loner, wears dark and weird clothes all the time, long hair to hide his face, do you want to be around that guy? Fvck no! But how about the guy who talks to everyone, jokes with everyone and obviously has a good sense of humor, and respects people but also has respect FROM people? Of course you want to be around that guy, he's the fvcking man!

So, who are you going to be?
that fvcking man.
 
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