You shouldn't use it at all...misterethoughts said:As others mentioned. It's great for creativity, but should not always be over used.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You shouldn't use it at all...misterethoughts said:As others mentioned. It's great for creativity, but should not always be over used.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How's that? I know some guys who do weed and a pretty chill...Darth said:Getting high on drugs is very un Don Juan.
And how is that exactly? There is no exact definition for a Don Juan, except that a Don Juan is someone who seduces women. That is all. Smoking weed has nothing to do with it; it doesn't make me a good role model for little kids, but it doesn't stop me from being a Don Juan. Are you going to tell me cussing is un Don Juan like too? You have to fight for the fairer justice? You have to believe in God? You should just stop talking period, you're saying some very foolish foolish things.Darth said:Getting high on drugs is very un Don Juan.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What a narrow minded statement.apusislaya said:You just parroting what TV says. If you knew and was aware what weed is for you'd have a different attitude, in fact you wouldn't be a slave. :kick: