"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Using LJBF on her?

jaybeezi

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What do you guys think about using LJBF on a girl, It would kind of be like acting as if you didnt need her in your life, and might drive her crazy. like " why does he only want to be friends, doesnt he want me?"

Have any of you tried this, or do any of you have any opinions on this.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ManOMan

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Ive tried it a few times, and while it drove the women crazy, it was more like a shattered ego for her then an actual rise in IL.

SOme women fall for it tho, because while they are trying to prove to you that they have sexual allure, you might take advantage of this opportunity.

But again, its an ego inspired sign of Interest, and not genuine
 

PEACEDJ

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haha yes, that does work. But! You have to be in a moderate mood to say it, and bring it up allude. David D uses this technique and so read up on his work. Oh and this has to be followed by extreme flirting and kino that she has a shadow of a doubt in her mind that you act more then just a f-buddy.
 

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She used LJBF on me

this happend to me a couple of weeks ago. She gave me the LJBF right away but then wanted to go out with me. We went out and at the end of the night we ended up in bed while she still insisted just to be friends with me.
Either she was nuts or this was her way of protecting herself from overly enthusiatic men. Early in the date I just decided to ignore it and go for it. It worked. If she had then shown interest in me I would have told her that I put her already in the LJBF category and that it's too late for a romantic relationship.
 

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It works but you have to flirt with them.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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