"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Using Eye Contact To Really attract Girls

Chilz Swayze

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The first time you hit eye contact with
a girl, you hold it until she breaks it. If
she breaks it and you do it right, she’ll
break it with a half-smile, a smirk on
her face like she’s interested. And
you’ll just continue to escalate.
You’ll wait a few minutes to look back.
She’ll continue to look at you on a
regular basis, but you want to
maintain a higher value than her, so
you want to hold off on looking back
at her immediately. She’ll be waiting to
hit eye contact with you again.
You want her to continue looking at
you while you’re sitting there talking to
your friend, blasting out the energy
that you’re a confident guy. She’s
gonna be attracted to that so she’ll
continue looking at you.
You are gazing around and you just
happen to stop by with your eyes and
catch her looking at you. But when
you stop by, she’ll have already
looked at you three times before
you’ve looked back. And you actually
hit it again.
You want to position yourself so
you’re facing her from the side so
she’s in your peripheral vision. I’m
looking at my buddy and talking to
him, but I can see what she’s doing
out of the corner of my eye.
I’m not going to face her and look at
her. I’m looking at my buddy and
talking and laughing. After she looks
at you a few times, that’s when you
gaze over at her.
That’s how I can sit there and stare
you, my friend, in the eye and see if
she’s looking.
But it’s important that when you do
hit eye contact with her, that you’re in
the moment with her.
Be with her. Listen to her. Feel her
through her eyes. Connect with her
on a deeper level. Look deeper than
her just being a good-looking girl.
You’re not thinking about what to do
next. What to say, how to say it. What
you’re gonna be doing with her later.
Whether you’re going to kiss her at the
end of the night.
Who the **** cares?
Enjoy her presence while she’s there.
When you do that, it’s gonna come
across to her and she’s gonna love
you for that.
So Establish eye contact.
Smile.
Start a conversation.Believe me this is really powerful.I have attracted alot of girls using only Eye Contact and remember hold it until she breaks it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Gunner26

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I agree eye contact is a massive tool. I find it really useful to tell if a girl is into me, it's just something I always pick up on, it probably has something to do with eyes being the first thing I notice about a person's face, female or male.

Like you said, always couple it with a smile, else there's a chance you'll come off as a creep just staring at the girl, just hold eye contact for a little longer than you would a normal person and you're good.

Gunner
 

zinc4

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so true...i have been practicing holding eye contact a lot lately here where i live...it leads to good number closes if you get a smile
 
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