Using "Dude", "Bro", "Buddy" as Spading

[HeyPachuco!]

I do this all the time when in-Field, I get called out on it by my Wings, but never the girls. So of course, I'm gonna need some of the thoughts of you guys whether or not I should cut-down on it.

This is how I talk regardless, out-of-set, but when approaching a really pretty girl, I surprise them by calling them Dude, Bro or Bud at the end. For me, this tells her a non-verbal unrecognizable neg of her looks and hardly recognizing her as a Female. Where her good looks has no effect, usually always works and I get the Doggy-Bowl face along with blushing or a giggle.

Neg, False Disqualifier and informal fluff, whatever you want to call it.

Comment after a VOTE.

 

[SoldMySoul]

I would not use words attached to men as neg hits. It just seems strange to do so. Only you know if it works, but just seems an odd way to address a target. I would use other words to address them, "Heffer, Ms. Lady, Woman and words attached to women." Of course heffer could be offensive, but used correctly in a playful manner it would be okay. If the target is on the thick side or if she has a problem with her weight you may want to refrain from using heffer.

 

[Young Juan]

As long as its natural and you have fun doing it, fvck what the others think. They're just jealous that you can get away with it and they can't pull it off.

 

[handle]

I use that sometimes. Then you start talking about sports to her, talk about how girls are stupid, figure skating sucks, etc. Turn it into a roleplay thing. All with a big grin the whole time.