“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Using David DeAngelo to pick up women

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I have found that discussing any material that David DeAngelo presents the same way he does it on stage to us is VERY fascinating to women. Of course they dont know its stolen from a seminar on dating, and I change the application of his material from dating to something else usually.

For example in his mastery series he talks about things like your Dark Side, Myers Briggs Personality System, Reframing Emotions (a big hit!), and in his Advanced Series he talks about changing limiting beliefs by asking positive how questions (used that one today with a girl!), and stuff like that. All of those topics are great to recite directly, and they are fascinating all on their own exactly the way David DeAngelo presents them on stage.

David DeAngelo's clearing fear and anxiety techniques that he presents in Advanced seminar are easily adaptable to "techniques for getting rid of test anxiety" by keeping the same structure and general content just changing approaching a woman to taking a test. These are relevant for just about every college girl.

Basically teach his material to women. They will find it fascinating that you know this, and it says all the right things about you. One that you're smart and you "get it" (it being the world around you) and two it raises your S&R value because they feel like they can learn something from being around you, like you could have a positive influence on their lives.

The reason I started doing this was I was running out of routines/convo topics that were interesting, and after I started teaching David D's material basically word for word to girls they reacted very positivley, so now I do it all the time.

This also works in teaching some of Mystery's stuff, Tyler Durden's etc, as long as you are careful not to reveal that you learned this (or that it is used for) picking up women.

To review, the formula is to roughly memorize a certain section of a David DeAngelo seminar that isnt DIRECTLY about women (like his Inner Game stuff, evolution lessons, psychology lessons I mentioned above, etc.) and recite it verbatim to girls whenever you feel like you are about to become boring due to running out of interesting conversational ideas. You can even emulate his tone of voice and body language if you are having a hard time with delivering it on your own.

::NOTE:: BEING CAREFUL NOT TO REVEAL THAT YOU LEARNED THIS TO PICK UP GIRLS AND ALSO BEING CAREFUL TO OMIT SECTIONS THAT WOULD REVEAL SUCH A PURPOSE.

To make it relevant to her, just do what David D does to engage his students by asking them to think of whatever situation or feeling or whatever as he talks. Just as it keeps his students involved in listening and getting something out of the seminar, it will keep the girls from being bored.

Try it.
 

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I sometimes use david deangelo to pick up women.

I'm like...hey dave, go get me some women! And he goes out and gets me 10,000,000 emails...
 

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I agree and this is something that I've wanted to try for some time.

The reason I think it works is because it is a topic that you are passionate about, and also it will teach her something about herself. Congruence.
 

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Not to mention its also chick crack because you are talking about the way people think, including her. The girls love that kind of analytical stuff.

Its also something that demonstrates a higher value, since there arent many guys who can just bust into a discussion of reframing emotional states and break down stress into workable parts for her!
 

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you're absolutely right joe.

I've been doing that too and they're all fascinated and consider you as a very profound person, who gets it + chicks are all into self-growth, inner stuff, emotions.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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