SirFratserlot
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Im in college and want sex lol, but I go on pof and most of the girls are questionably human.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Using dating sites in college
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
TheException
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College....http://www.troll.me/images/picard-palm/youre-doing-it-wrong.jpg
Zero need for a dating site in college pal. If you live on campus(and you better) theres chicks galore everywhere. I live on a pretty big campus and every weekend is a blast. I meet chicks all throughout the week and then party with them on the weekend. Once you turn 21(if your not) theres bars on campus that no doubt pop....the girls dress up and all head out to dance. Get your head in the game kid...its all around you.
Zero need for a dating site in college pal. If you live on campus(and you better) theres chicks galore everywhere. I live on a pretty big campus and every weekend is a blast. I meet chicks all throughout the week and then party with them on the weekend. Once you turn 21(if your not) theres bars on campus that no doubt pop....the girls dress up and all head out to dance. Get your head in the game kid...its all around you.
SirFratserlot
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I have a better chance at winning the lottery than pulling a chick at my college. Desperate times call for desperate measuresTheException said:
Easier in person then on dating sites. Just make an active friend circle. I'm almost 30 and while I have a masters degree I went back to school for language studies last summer with a lot of undergrads and made a friend circle. I probably met more girls that were single than I did in the past 10 years combined. Dating sites I rarely get any hits.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
POF is a waste of time anyway, you get 6's acting like 9's because of all the attention and its generally a bad experience. Plus you have much better interactions if you go up and talk to a girl(properly) during the day because no other guys are doing that. If you run up to a girl and tell her you just wanted to meet her because she looked nice, shes going to be flattered and talk to you. Those girls who are super hot actually react better to this if you do it in the Wright way...pun intended.
Uncharted
Master Don Juan
Poor attitude! In all seriousness, flirt with and game chicks in your classes, dorm, parties, events, around campus, etc. It's a numbers game and the numbers are in your favor here. 100% of chicks on a college campus want to hook up, some just already have boyfriends. It's your goal to find the ones that don't.SirFratserlot said:
switch
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i will give you one piece of advice, right now you are in college, you should be studying to have a chance at life in the upcoming years, dont waste it on POF, parties ,alcohol and cvmdumpsters.
its no surprise nobody mentioned that you should be studying instead of gaming chicks,dude in this economy if all you think about during college is banging....you are a faggot and deserve a$$ rape by the social elite later on.
look ,if you play now, you'll pay later.but if you pay now,you can have lots of playtime when you have a good financial footing.
its a disaster, everywhere in the world college means studying, but in the US, college means alcohol,parties and slvts.
now we have obama wondering what the hell is ruining Murica..... *facepalm* the future is dark
its no surprise nobody mentioned that you should be studying instead of gaming chicks,dude in this economy if all you think about during college is banging....you are a faggot and deserve a$$ rape by the social elite later on.
look ,if you play now, you'll pay later.but if you pay now,you can have lots of playtime when you have a good financial footing.
its a disaster, everywhere in the world college means studying, but in the US, college means alcohol,parties and slvts.
now we have obama wondering what the hell is ruining Murica..... *facepalm* the future is dark
TheException
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you should be studying to have a chance at life in the upcoming years, dont waste it on POF, parties ,alcohol and cvmdumpsters
Just because you couldnt/cant do two things at once, doesnt mean nobody else can.
Just because you couldnt/cant do two things at once, doesnt mean nobody else can.
What? Some of the most successful and smartest students I know party extremely hard.switch said:
It's all about time management and efficiency.
The OP has not mentioned that he was struggling in school. For all we know, he could be a genius. So advising him to just ignore a social life and focus primarily on his studies is not going to solve his problems.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
SirFratserlot
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So im pretty much screwed
Mr Wright
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No, you're not screwed if you get the right frame of mind and put in the effort.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
I know what you mean. Normally you have fun the first 2 years of college and then concentrate on studying and making yourself better, so that you can land a great job in the future. Most college girls are after hot guys and there are just as many good-looking guys on campus as good-looking women. From my experience, they are picky, immature,and conceited. Proximity to campus and alcohol are your friends, he he. Do both and see where it is the most efficient.
HedoRick
Senior Don Juan
If you think the girls on your campus are bad, then dating chicks online will show you how truly awful/entitled some cvnts can be. I do online dating on and off for some pumps and dumps, but it's not worth much more than that. Trust me on this one.