Using Challenge all the way

[Latinoman]

Just now she initiate txt message me (friday evening at my time zone)

HB : What are you doing now?
Me : I'm going to a great club called XXX with my friends later. =)

No reply from her for the night.. Gosh. **** test?? Makes me a bit shaky, but i refrain myself from msging/calling her since she never reply.

How can you expect her to reply...when you wrote "later" (as to imply that the messaging is over for the night).

 

[Latinoman]

A cancellation a day before the date with a counter-offer is not a flake, per se.

In fact, inviting you on Saturday is a big indicator of intrerest. Especially if her work schedule's a typical 9-5 M-F.

EXACTLY!

She did not flake. She simply couldn't make it...and SHE counter offered with another DAY! That's more than clear to ME that she is interested!

 

[Latinoman]

you suck. You aint a "challenge" you're just acting.

Acting like you dont care, and then analysing every single SMS she sent to you...

For some reason I found this funny. LOL.

Personally...I didn't know they were both Asian (living in Asia). And I don't know their ages. So, I will refrain from advice.

 

[charlezz]

Somehow or another, I find the above posts rather enlightening. Solves majority of the problem.

The thing to fix is... my inner game, don't over analysize, stop caring so much and sarge on.

I'll update any major problems. Thanks guys.