"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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charlezz said:
Just now she initiate txt message me (friday evening at my time zone)

HB : What are you doing now?
Me : I'm going to a great club called XXX with my friends later. =)

No reply from her for the night.. Gosh. **** test?? Makes me a bit shaky, but i refrain myself from msging/calling her since she never reply.
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How can you expect her to reply...when you wrote "later" (as to imply that the messaging is over for the night).
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bonhomme said:
A cancellation a day before the date with a counter-offer is not a flake, per se.

In fact, inviting you on Saturday is a big indicator of intrerest. Especially if her work schedule's a typical 9-5 M-F.
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EXACTLY!

She did not flake. She simply couldn't make it...and SHE counter offered with another DAY! That's more than clear to ME that she is interested!
 
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hck332 said:
you suck. You aint a "challenge" you're just acting.

Acting like you dont care, and then analysing every single SMS she sent to you...
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For some reason I found this funny. LOL.

Personally...I didn't know they were both Asian (living in Asia). And I don't know their ages. So, I will refrain from advice.
 
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Somehow or another, I find the above posts rather enlightening. Solves majority of the problem.

The thing to fix is... my inner game, don't over analysize, stop caring so much and sarge on.

I'll update any major problems. Thanks guys.
 
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