"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Using affirmations during orgasm

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Here's a rather intriguing theory that i recently came up with. In a nutshell, it's using affirmations during orgasm. Why? Because based on what i know about the subconscious mind, the effectiveness of any particular affirmation depends on three factors relating to the state of mind while affirming:

1) The rate at which the mind if functioning. The faster the rate, the more receptive to suggestion the mind is. This is why hypnotists first still the body and then try to affect the mind. The energy saved by the body being still allows for the mind to function at a more rapid rate. At the time of orgasm, the body is perfectly still, and the mind is functioning at an extremely rapid rate.

2) The level of desire for the achievement of whatever it is you are trying to achieve with the suggestion. At the time of orgasm, desire is absolutely peaked. I believe that this is the highest point of human desire. Absolutely nothing can top the desire for orgasm, moments before orgasm. This desire can be channeled via sex transmutation. This is very easy to do once you learn how. To do this, associate the goal (whatever you're affirming) with sex and think about it during orgasm. Your mind will blend it with desire and fuel your desire for that goal with desire for orgasm.

3) The level of faith in your ability to attain the object of desire. In other words, whether or not you believe it can be done. What i realized is that it is ridicuously easy to convince yourself of just about anything while you're cumming. You feel incredibly powerful and your potential seems limitless. In this state, it should be easy to convince yourself that you're perfectly capable of doing whatever it is you're affirming. In fact, you should be able to convince yourself that it is in fact so easy, that afterwards you'll wonder why you haven't achieved it already.

All that being said, why the hell didn't anyone think of this earlier? But while it does look perfect on paper, i suggest we put it to the test. Pick an affirmation and mentally repeat it to yourself just before orgasm, during, and right after. For instance, the one i tried earlier today is "i am absolutely calm and comfortable around women" and after just one try, i now feel a lot more comfortable with women. You can affirm whatever you want. It doesn't have anything to do with women, but try to tie it in and relate it to them to make it more relevant to sex, just so that it "makes sense" to your mind to think it during orgasm. In most cases, this can be done pretty easily. For instace, goals like a new car or a better job can be tied in to sex easily, because they can be used to help you get more of it. Anyway, put this to the test and let me know what you think. Remember, you should do this at least a half-dozen times before you expect to see ANY effect.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm sorry, but I ain't gonna fvck up a good nut by thinking too much! :crackup:
 

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You don't really have to think. Your goals should be second nature. For instance, simply affirm "i'll fvck three more like her this month!" If anything, that'll help you enjoy yourself MORE!
 

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The only thing that would go through my mind would be "Now what did she say her name was?" I mean, how else would you ask her to make you a sandwich after you're done?:crackup:
 

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the only thing going through my mind would be... "god I love my right hand"

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Skullcrusher
Fuk those Kama Sutra bullshat and Fuk this!
Is that Chinese?
 

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Awesome.

I'm gonna wank all day and if someone asks what I do with my free time I'll just say...

SELF IMPROVEMENT

:D
 

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this is so crazy it could work.

I guess all that's happening is your mind is associating a very nice feeling of pleasure with whatever your thinking.

If that's true you could also use it with other things like when you come home and have that first beer of the day or meeting a good friend, just make sure your always repeating the affirmation in your mind.

interesting
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If you guys are talking about anchoring, that's not the way it works.
 
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