"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Using a wingman on OLD?

MrWood

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I honestly cant see this working in any way, shape, or form.

If you cant attract her, neither can the wing (for you)... in fact it makes you look quite pathetic, dont it?
This is a WOMANS tactic, a WOMANS frame.
Most WOMEN lack CONFIDENCE and seek out men to give them CONFIDENCE

This tactic reveals your lack of CONFIDENCE
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tilex

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Having wingman or wingwomen online to talk good about you doesn't translate to reality.
You're doing all this nonsense in a virtual environment.

What's your wingman gonna do for you online?

Compliment your photos?
Give you likes?
Email a girl your interested in?
Spread positive rumors about you?

In case you haven't realized it yet, this is all validation seeking behavior.
You would come across as highly feminine to other women.
Plus, online dating is too saturated. You've already lost points by using it.
If you're a 10 in real life, you would be 6 online.
If you're a 6 in real life, you would be 2 online.
 
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