"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Using a wing woman to pick up HB's doesn't seem to work

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

captain55

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2013
Messages
1,210
Reaction score
438
a wing man is to help you pick up on what chicks are looking at you, because many times you wont even know what girls are looking at you .......a wing man is also there to simply walk in the club or bar with you so you don't look like some anti social ****ing loser/creeper.
 

TheLoner

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 25, 2013
Messages
150
Reaction score
1
captain55 said:
a wing man is to help you pick up on what chicks are looking at you, because many times you wont even know what girls are looking at you .......a wing man is also there to simply walk in the club or bar with you so you don't look like some anti social ****ing loser/creeper.

a wing woman, not a wing man, watch the video
 

zinc4

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 17, 2007
Messages
3,044
Reaction score
1,425
it was too over the top to be taken seriously...and i am pretty sure they are just trying to be funny and entertaining not really pick anyone up...and a wing woman works great in a nightclub...freakin awkward for day game, though

Just watched the first part as well...they are talking to some ugly and fat women in some of those exchanges.....like i said before, it's clearly not mean't to be serious...
 

bigneil

Banned
Joined
Oct 20, 2006
Messages
8,265
Reaction score
2,644
Location
Texas
There are no wing women. There are only:

A) Women who like you (and who would thus not set you up with other women) - these women do indeed make other women like you, but you're not getting any numbers because the other women would think you were a loser for hurting the one you are with in front of them.

B) Women who do not like you (and who thus cannot make other women like you because other women can tell).

For this same reason, never take advice about a woman from another woman.

And remember: women want what other women want (not what other women are rejecting).
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Top