"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Using A Fake Pic On Dating Site?

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So one of my mates is currently smashing it with online dating.. Currently he is juggling between 4-5 dates every weekend.

He is a reasonably good looking guy, and works out at the same gym as me.. He has a good physique, good big arms, chest etc...

However he showed me his dating profile today.. He as around 3 pics of himself on it, but has one body pic, which is not him... It's a googled FAKE pic.

This pic is just a full body in the flesh, but no face showing.. Obviously the pic shows a very ripped torso! Nice and muscular.

I asked him about this, he claims since adding the fake pic, he gets waaay more responses from chicks.

My question to him was this.. What if you meet one of these chicks for a date, and she sees that you are not the ripped???

Keep in mind, he looks muscular on the surface, so you can tell this man works out, but underneath his top there are ZERO abs! Lool

Now his theory is this... The only way one of these chicks is going to realise he isn't actually that ripped, is when he undresses, but by then, they will be both ready to FUK anyway...

So chances are she will OVERLOOK the matter, and continue to FUK.

What do you guys think of this situation? I would feel somewhat uncomfortable about it.

But then again he has pulled it off, and banged a good few chicks from online.

Thoughts?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The shirt will come if and she will think it's simply an old picture of how torso.

If she asks he will say "from a year ago, got busy, couldn't keep it up, need to get back to that"

She will be okay with that.
 

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its my case. i have a pic of abs where i weighted 75kg now i weight 90kg and no abs.i dont even stress about it. if some chiks go mad about it then they need to rethink their attitude


also stop being fat
 

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The shirt will come if and she will think it's simply an old picture of how torso.

If she asks he will say "from a year ago, got busy, couldn't keep it up, need to get back to that"

She will be okay with that.

Well this is true, he can always say, that one particular pic was from a few years back.. He is still in good shape..

But I feel he is being some what deceitful? I guess to a degree, even the females are guilty of this, if they have filtered pics on there.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well this is true, he can always say, that one particular pic was from a few years back.. He is still in good shape..

But I feel he is being some what deceitful? I guess to a degree, even the females are guilty of this, if they have filtered pics on there.
I think ill do it
 

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Well this is true, he can always say, that one particular pic was from a few years back.. He is still in good shape..

But I feel he is being some what deceitful? I guess to a degree, even the females are guilty of this, if they have filtered pics on there.
Women's make up, heels, died hair, push up bras, trimming belts, fake eyelashes, boob jobs, v@ginal "rejuvenation", nose jobs, edited pictures, etc. are deceitful.

Give them a taste of their own medicine and then come back and tell us how it went!
 
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Women's make up, heels, died hair, nails, push up bras, trimming belts, fake eyelashes, fake butts, boob jobs, v@ginal "rejuvenation", nose jobs, edited pictures, etc. are deceitful.

Give them a taste of their own medicine and then come back and tell us how it went!
All this masquerade is so they can find rich and fit male instead of making money on their own
 
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I don't know. If he's not too far off from being ripped it probably won't be an issue.

But if it's a totally different body, even saying that it's an old pic, and even if it was an old pic and not lie, it would be kind of pathetic.

Have any of you guys got a girl to down to her bday suit and realized that her mouth was writing cheques her body couldn't cash?

Disappointing right? Goes both ways.

I think fake pics, and heavily filtered snap chat photos (girls are bad for this) are kind of lame, but I'm not dating online so maybe this is the new thing, next stop virtual reality dating? I don't know....
 

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I don't know. If he's not too far off from being ripped it probably won't be an issue.

But if it's a totally different body, even saying that it's an old pic, and even if it was an old pic and not lie, it would be kind of pathetic.

Have any of you guys got a girl to down to her bday suit and realized that her mouth was writing cheques her body couldn't cash?

Disappointing right? Goes both ways.

I think fake pics, and heavily filtered snap chat photos (girls are bad for this) are kind of lame, but I'm not dating online so maybe this is the new thing, next stop virtual reality dating? I don't know....
Yeah, it's so disappointing to see a guy look totally different after they take off their 20+ kinds of make up... oh wait a second...

Imo, while I wouldn't do it myself, those girls don't have a right to complain about it. They market themselves with make up, fake hair, fake eyelashes, filters and special poses with their @ss that are the equivalent of me taking a photo of my tensed biceps from the best angle. If she doesn't do any of those things then she can call him dishonest. If she doesn't like his deception, she can ask him to buy a muscle suit to smooth it over like she covers her face with a "suit" of make up and voila.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If she doesn't do any of those things then she can call him dishonest.
Yes indeed, if she’s basically honest herself, she can and likely would think of him as at least deceptive or dishonest and reject him…
When it gets down to honesty, opposites don’t usually attract.
 
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I'm always amazed at the levels of deceit guys are willing to stoop to just to get a piece of @ss. Like you say though, it's working.
 

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Lol women are so superficial compared to men

Think of all the guys who would bang ugly chicks if they had a chance
 

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I'm always amazed at the levels of deceit guys are willing to stoop to just to get a piece of @ss. Like you say though, it's working.

Zekko my boy is smashing online azz on a regular basis, sp obviously working!
 

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i use a pic of my floppy arm, gets dat pvssy weet
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So one of my mates is currently smashing it with online dating.. Currently he is juggling between 4-5 dates every weekend.

He is a reasonably good looking guy, and works out at the same gym as me.. He has a good physique, good big arms, chest etc...

However he showed me his dating profile today.. He as around 3 pics of himself on it, but has one body pic, which is not him... It's a googled FAKE pic.

This pic is just a full body in the flesh, but no face showing.. Obviously the pic shows a very ripped torso! Nice and muscular.

I asked him about this, he claims since adding the fake pic, he gets waaay more responses from chicks.

My question to him was this.. What if you meet one of these chicks for a date, and she sees that you are not the ripped???

Keep in mind, he looks muscular on the surface, so you can tell this man works out, but underneath his top there are ZERO abs! Lool

Now his theory is this... The only way one of these chicks is going to realise he isn't actually that ripped, is when he undresses, but by then, they will be both ready to FUK anyway...

So chances are she will OVERLOOK the matter, and continue to FUK.

What do you guys think of this situation? I would feel somewhat uncomfortable about it.

But then again he has pulled it off, and banged a good few chicks from online.

Thoughts?
Ingenious, I'm going to start using it. I have just the picture in mind too.
 

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@soulforge Was the operation successful?

Well i have not used this tactic myself.. As i am in good shape as it is, so don't really need a fake torso pic lol

But this seems to be working for my mate.. He banged an online chick last weekend, I asked him, if she bought up the fact, that he did not look as ripped as his online torso pic?

Apparently she didn't say a word about it, and happily just took the dik.
 
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Well i have not used this tactic myself.. As i am in good shape as it is, so don't really need a fake torso pic lol

But this seems to be working for my mate.. He banged an online chick last weekend, I asked him, if she bought up the fact, that he did not look as ripped as his online torso pic?

Apparently she didn't say a word about it, and happily just took the dik.
Does he take them on dates first, or just ask them straight to his place?

If he goes on dates, where does he take them?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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