“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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..... just a few questions i pulled up from my collections ..
use um if u nee um .. enjoy

Have you ever met a famous person?
How do you spend your free time?
How tall are you?
What is your motto?
What kind of food do you like?
What kind of people do you not like?
What's something you do well?
What's your father like?
What's your mother like?
What's your name mean?
Have you ever been in a fist fight?
Have you ever broken a bone?
Have you ever fallen in love at first sight?
Describe a perfect date.
Describe the appearance of the person you would like to date?
Do you know the difference between love and like?
Do you think a boy should pay for everything on a date?
Have you ever had a crush on someone?
If you could go out with anyone, who would it be?
What are some qualities that you think are important in a friend
Would you prefer to go out with a quiet or a talkative person?
Are you a good dancer?
Are you a good singer?
Do you like to sing karaoke?
Can you play a musical instrument?
Do you like to listen to Broadway musicals?
Do you sing while taking a bath?
Is there any kind of music that you hate?
What was the last CD you bought?
Have you ever slept in class?
What classes do you not like? Why don't you like them?
What do you think is the most serious problem in the world?
What are some expectations parents have for their children?
Do you consider yourself an animal lover?
Do you prefer dogs or cats?
Do you believe in ghosts?
If you were a ghost who and where would you haunt?
Do you think that there is truth behind superstitions?
What are some things that are considered lucky?
Do you have a lucky number?
What is your blood type?
Do you believe in horoscopes?
Have you ever had a dream come true?
Has anything ever happened to you that you cannot explain?
Do you believe that UFOs exist? / Do you believe in UFOs?
what was the most frightening exprence you ever had?
Are chores assigned to children in your family?
Do you get along well with your family?
Do you have a curfew?
Do you think your parents undestand you? Why or why not?
What do you think of your mother and your father?
Whats your favorite type of candy?
What is your favorite animal?
What is your favorite kind of book?
What is your favorite kind of movie?
What is your favorite magazine?
What is your favorite radio station?
What is your favorite TV program?
Who is your favorite athlete?
Who is your favorite actor?
Who is your favorite superhero? Explain why.
Do you like to gamble?
Have you ever been to a play?
How often do you rent videos?
What are some of the good movies you have seen?
What is the scariest movies you have ever seen?
What is the worst movie you've ever seen?
What is your favorite board game? Why?
Where do you usually read?
Who is your favorite comedian?
Who is your favorite musician?
Would you rather go to a bar or a nightclub?
What kinds of things make you nervous?
Are you afraid of heights?
If you had only 24 hours to live, what would you do?
If the whole world were listening, what would you say?
If you could ask God any one question, what would it be?
If you could be another person for a day, who would you be?
If you could hear what someone is thinking for a day, who would you choose?
If you could live anywhere, where would you live?
If you had one wish, what would it be?
If you had to choose, would you give up your sight or your hearing?
If you were to be stranded on an island, which 3 things would you bring with you?
Would you ever consider being a criminal?
Would you ever consider getting plastic surgery?
Would you ever pick up a hitchhiker?
Would you ever slap someone for something they said?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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one more,

Do you have a life?

:D : whats the point of all these questions
 
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Would you do suck off a tranny and drink some cyanide?
 

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Excelent open ended convo running questions.
 

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but Lik its better to go with the flow . . .



ROLL WITH THE PUNCHES
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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nice

ya, its good to roll with the punches, but not everyone is a master at doing so. Great conversations could spur from some of those, great job.
 

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Even when using techniques like "nouning", nearly every conversation comes to a dead end eventually. I try to go with the flow as much as possible, but it's always good to have some standard questions in the back of your mind you can fall back on whenever things slow down.
 

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A question that I used that led to a fairly interesting conversation:

"If your life was a book, what genre would it be?"

Of course, the girl has to be fairly smart, but it's an interesting deep question.
 

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just to many

cant memorize it?! im going to have a hard time, for me jsut be your self and read the DJ bible will help
 

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Originally posted by Brak86
First of all...thanks a lot guitar....good open-ended questions.

Secondly, i was planning on rolling witht eh punches on a date but is it ok to print a small sheet of these and put it in ure wallet so uc an use these whenever ure stuck? (i mean u would go to the bathroom and open ure wallet and get some more topics on ure mind.)
yeah no worries, its cool, but more so your more confident. Ideally, everytime there is a halt in the converstaion you do not want to be slipping off to the toilet and then coming back with some wise questions. Id say its better to memorise a couple but bring em with you, if it will make you feel better. However, you dont want it to look like you keep going off anf phoning your best mate on how to date.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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reminds me, thanx, i used the hitchiker one yesterday subconsciously, they are useful, originally i did not get what they were for. Anyway, one piece of advice, do not use the "have you ever considered having plastic surgery" on a girl with any issues about her looks. Becasue it could easily come of as an insult rather than a question.
 

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sorry to be so disparaging frequently, they ar actually quite useful
 

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Yeah, hold on, let me memorize all these.


...give me a break. :p
 

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These are good questions but the underlying need for them isn't good.

You shouldn't need these, consciously or subconsiously. Take a look in the bible, it's got some nice pieces about conversation. If you're totally braindead with conversations, ask more about what she's talking about. If she's talking about California, ask about sun, trips, vacations, suntans, weather, etc. etc. ...plenty of stuff here.

Canned questions usually sound really odd if you pop them out in conversation. You can tell when someone has thought over a question for a few minutes before blurting it out. Don't be that person:)
 

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lol, yep, but they are good if you are talking to a person impersonaly, lke via text or IM as there are often unnatural silences due to the way that there is often less to comment on in shared things like where you are.

and remember them, you only need a couple as emergency converstaion pieces. If you have more breaks in the convo your probably not going to be so successful as you dont seem to hav clicked.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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"First of all...thanks a lot guitar....good open-ended questions.

Secondly, i was planning on rolling witht eh punches on a date but is it ok to print a small sheet of these and put it in ure wallet so uc an use these whenever ure stuck? (i mean u would go to the bathroom and open ure wallet and get some more topics on ure mind.)
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Sencondly a lot of girls like to look at guys wallets. and if they do and find a sheet like that there not gonna think highly of you. Better to memorize.
 
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