"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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jhonny9546

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This guy has an entire channel built around rebuilding his life as a man after discovering what he considers to be the “true nature” of women.

The content is legitimate, and there is a lot of genuinely useful information that is explained very well.
When you watch the videos you also start to wonder whether, for some people, their own judgment can actually trap them in a kind of hamster wheel.

I mean, this man went through a divorce with a woman. He talks about his experience, and then all the commenters say how much they can relate to him. But almost nobody seems to ask: “Is it possible that your experience isn’t necessarily the experience of everyone else?”

Could it be that he simply doesn’t realize there are women out there who don’t behave this way?
That, yes, we men can use the advice he gives to build a better and more independent life, but at the same time, we might also feel more free if we recognize that there are genuinely good women out there, and that not every relationship is destined to follow the same pattern?


 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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taiyuu_otoko

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This is an ancient self-delusional con.

It's not my fault I suck, it's the world's fault.

If you want to make it as a content creator, make videos like this that validate the coping strategies of all the dudes who are too scared to approach women.
 

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Just watching the first 5 seconds, I know the guy in the video is a loser.

When you get into your 60s and beyond, you're just not gonna have all these chicks you can date and bang. At some point, you have to settle down.

And life without a romantic companion is gonna suck hard. You're literally just waiting to die.
 

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It's not my fault I suck, it's the world's fault.
That's actually not what it invites you to do.

And life without a romantic companion is going to suck hard.
It's really not better to stay with someone who drives you crazy from morning till night. Just for fashion.

Besides, you still have friends.

Guys, have you ever been single in your life?
Did you face that moment?

In my experience, it was a way to understand the "noises" of life.
Anyway, I was better off in that moment than in a relationship that was destroying me.
Sure, I still needed sex and intimacy, which I wasn't finding with my male or female friends, but that being said, it's definitely better than getting lost in an unfulfilling relationship.
 

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Just watching the first 5 seconds, I know the guy in the video is a loser.

When you get into your 60s and beyond, you're just not gonna have all these chicks you can date and bang. At some point, you have to settle down.

And life without a romantic companion is gonna suck hard. You're literally just waiting to die.
Question;

What's a man supposed to do if he gets OUT of a relationship after lets say 50?

You've been dodging this question for WEEKS. Time to find your ballsack and make sure you got a waterproof philosophy, instead one with gaping holes in it!

We know, your 46 anx you got a gf. Whoopdiedoo!! Lets see how much relationship you got when YOU turn 50! Life is gonna throw this delusional arrogance right back at ya mi amigo ! I bet the farm on that!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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