"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Useful tip for women who wear glasses

vorbis

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Not posting it as a tip, since i've only tested it on one girl! It worked though an a blonde HB8. Didn't end up taking her home but was making out with her for a while.

This tip is for girls that look good wearing glasses. As a rule, glasses look good on someone if they're not that noticeable. Look to see if the glasses are rimless or have a small lens.

I said something along the lines of
"Those glasses really suit you, the lenses are small and fit in well with your face blah blah"

I opened the chick with this and had her beaming within 10 seconds! I think its useful as glasses are something that people generally are very self conscious about. I wear them myself. Hey if I got the above compiment, I;d be beaming!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Boner da Stoner

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I love the coke frame glasses that make their eyes super bug eyed... their eyes really pop out

it also tells me the girl doesn't focus on looks much
 

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Secretary look is hot!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Generally I've had good results with compliments on jewelry and accessories. They make good ice breakers.
 

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no fair, i went thru my entire high school career trying to figure out how to not wear mine because i didnt want to be seen as a nerd.
of course, i had to wear them to see.
 

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reason #55423 why girls should wear glasses: They will more readily let u bust a load on their face b/c their fears of having it get in their eyes are dramatically reduced !


Yet, another useful tip by me. Please, no need to thank me.
 

Boner da Stoner

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Originally posted by penkitten
no fair, i went thru my entire high school career trying to figure out how to not wear mine because i didnt want to be seen as a nerd.
of course, i had to wear them to see.
I waited until I was 21... I sat in the back of the class to try and seem cool :p I started sitting there in grade 2, I only learned through experience, homework, and what notes I could write in class... Being in the field I only get experience, damn, can I learn more from every cold approach by writing and doing BC type actions? Should I make everything a social experiment?
 

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i love a girl with pitch black galsses and has a cool dog by her side. i save money because we dont have to go to the movies
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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