"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Used Luxury Car or New Honda
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
My knockaround/go to the gym/store car is a 95 white lexus ls300. no rims, no super sound system, just clean as hell and there is no doubt if i had to i could pull ass in this car without question. and at almsot 20 years old it still rides smoother than most of my friends buicks/hayundai's/mazda's. the car just passed the 300 thousand mile mark and i could get in the car now, drive it to Arkansas right now with no questions asked.
PRMoon
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backseatjuan
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http://www.lada-auto.ru/cgi-bin/models.pl?model_id=5086&branch=tth
Here are two comparison videos, to Porsche Cayenne http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v_bPH1YcAPE
and Hummer H2 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RUHHANKAOQo
You can order it and pick it up at your nearest port city or have it shipped to your door. Call them 8-800-200-52-32
I would get a used luxury car if it costs less than $10,000. I would really look into BMW 8 series. I wouldn't look into anything Cadillac, Ford, Chevy, Oldsmobile, etc has to offer. If I was paying $20,000 and up I'd look into custom hot rods, 33 fords, etc. I wouldn't buy a brand new honda or toyota for one simple reason, brand new cars depreciate quick. I'd get a used honda or used toyota instead.
One more important thing, get a car with manual transmission. You will enjoy your life more. Most idiots with automatics press gas and break and drive like idiots, with manual you will learn to drive like a human being.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Sir Psycho Sexy
Senior Don Juan
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
in the last 2 years i had to replace the transmission on the lexus, actually both of them the one that got stolen the SC300 i had just put a new tranny in it like a month earlier. one was a stick the ES is an auto.. i got a new (Aftermarket) transmission put in the lexus sc for under 2,500. and that ws the first real needed work i had done on the car in about 2-3 years other than new tires ($800) and reguar oil changes/tune ups
new cars they get you beucase usually to keep the warranty and to keep the resale value you, they push you get all the work done there at their sho and they bust heads.
Bokanovsky
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
backseatjuan
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Lexus is a good brand. But are you buying a sedan or coupe? Americans used to ride in full size 4 door sedans just 20 years ago, now SUV is in style. Why don't you get an SUV? Difference in driving is night and day, you're sitting high, you see more, other cars respect you (because you big). I like the Gelenwagen http://motors.shop.ebay.com/Cars-Trucks-/6001/i.html?_dmpt=US_Cars_Trucks&_trksid=p2050890.m1603&LH_ItemCondition=2|0&_mak=Mercedes-Benz&_mod=G-Class
It has solid front and rear axles and thus it is not just an SUV, but a fully blown off road vehicle. Just put large tires on it, 33" for example, and you're set. It even has front and rear diff locks, nothing to install. Plus mid axle diff lock.
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SUVs may still be considered cool in Russia (where popular tastes lag about ten years behind the West), but in North America, they are seen as soccer mom cars. Even high end SUVs like BMW X5, Audi Q7, Mercedes ML, etc. are predominately driven by women.backseatjuan said:
switch
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invest in stocks or buy pure gold and stash it in a deposit box at the bank, ruby works too, just a stupid thought of mine
a used car brings lots of trouble if you aren't careful, but then again the new ones get a hefty tax,better to buy a used lexus