You have the potential to be a 10!! ... if you convey more confidence.
One thing you should really do is work on your vernacular. AWESOME & BEST FRIENDS are something you use when you're in middle school. Certain habits we pick up from that era tend to stick. People don't need to hear that you're tight with ur boys; they should just know it, not think twice about it, and respect it.
Here's a written face book status example that people would respect:
"Thomas Pitera is... FUK WITH (TLL) CREW YAH BIATCHES."
Of course this is just something I used as an example. It strongly conveys confidence, not caring about what people think, it doesn't sound rehearsed or wigger-like, and its sounds like you're anything but a fairy. Something else probably, but it radiates aggressiveness and decisiveness.
Respectably, you don't talk like that in public. We should act classy, but we are socially inept enough to know what is socially acceptable--we absorb it, and modify it to make it our own. You must think this way before you are able to vocalize and radiate your upbeat personality towards the world.
This is a simple rundown of what it takes to give yourself mystery and social currency within your speech, two very attractive qualities.
As for a buddy, I told him to use his Spanish heritage.
Shyt, me and my room mate grabbed simple Spanish words/accents all the time last year. After all, we are in Florida.
"Was sup mamacita (I don't even know what that means)! Whas good?"
We called women "chica" a lot. Especially when being condescending.
"Alllllllright chica, what r u gettin' at?"
I did some Spanish actors randomly. Cheech and Chong are great, especially for me as a surfer/smoker from a small tourist town.
"NO KID'TIN MAAAAAAAYN."
"No se chica, but you need to seriously step up your game to show me what's up."
More examples to illustrate a point--not your style.
The point is, bring women TO YOUR WORLD. YOUR LEVEL. Don't go to theirs. They're already too high up on a pedestal for you to reach. So kick it out from under them, or find a woman that doesn't keep climbing back up so quickly.
Don’t hate because my style is different than yours, or sounds like something you’ve never heard. I know I sound stupid to some people, BUT IT WORKS FOR ME. I get laid all the damn time, and hook up with ladies left and right. This should make a light go off in your head that says: For my age, for my peers, for my location, for my background... I REALLY SOUND LIKE AN AVERAGE CHUMP AND SOMETHING NEEDS TO CHANGE.
One thing you should really do is work on your vernacular. AWESOME & BEST FRIENDS are something you use when you're in middle school. Certain habits we pick up from that era tend to stick. People don't need to hear that you're tight with ur boys; they should just know it, not think twice about it, and respect it.
Here's a written face book status example that people would respect:
"Thomas Pitera is... FUK WITH (TLL) CREW YAH BIATCHES."
Of course this is just something I used as an example. It strongly conveys confidence, not caring about what people think, it doesn't sound rehearsed or wigger-like, and its sounds like you're anything but a fairy. Something else probably, but it radiates aggressiveness and decisiveness.
Respectably, you don't talk like that in public. We should act classy, but we are socially inept enough to know what is socially acceptable--we absorb it, and modify it to make it our own. You must think this way before you are able to vocalize and radiate your upbeat personality towards the world.
This is a simple rundown of what it takes to give yourself mystery and social currency within your speech, two very attractive qualities.
As for a buddy, I told him to use his Spanish heritage.
Shyt, me and my room mate grabbed simple Spanish words/accents all the time last year. After all, we are in Florida.
"Was sup mamacita (I don't even know what that means)! Whas good?"
We called women "chica" a lot. Especially when being condescending.
"Alllllllright chica, what r u gettin' at?"
I did some Spanish actors randomly. Cheech and Chong are great, especially for me as a surfer/smoker from a small tourist town.
"NO KID'TIN MAAAAAAAYN."
"No se chica, but you need to seriously step up your game to show me what's up."
More examples to illustrate a point--not your style.
The point is, bring women TO YOUR WORLD. YOUR LEVEL. Don't go to theirs. They're already too high up on a pedestal for you to reach. So kick it out from under them, or find a woman that doesn't keep climbing back up so quickly.
Don’t hate because my style is different than yours, or sounds like something you’ve never heard. I know I sound stupid to some people, BUT IT WORKS FOR ME. I get laid all the damn time, and hook up with ladies left and right. This should make a light go off in your head that says: For my age, for my peers, for my location, for my background... I REALLY SOUND LIKE AN AVERAGE CHUMP AND SOMETHING NEEDS TO CHANGE.
