“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Use your imagination...Be your own PUA!

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Dude, this is an awesome post!

The way i interpret the poem is this, Carroll was frustrated with his life, his personality and childhood had been stifled, possibly by his father whom he probably relates to in his poem, the little boy slaying the dragon (the way i picture it) is actually him, confronting demons brought about by a childhood in which he was a age old AFC, much like the PUA's of today, he became his own man, used his own mind and conveyed his own thoughts and ideas to evolve into the man he could never have been if he'd had just stayed in line and followed the crowd...a sin a lot of us are guilty of!
As children we look up to the adults around us, if they don't know any better we won't; but there will be that feeling in our gut that there is something more to that. Most people just learn to shut that feeling off instead of following it to see where it leads them.

Most of the guys here know (inherently) that there is something more, that is why we show up here, to seek answers!

-Sapiens


The question, my guess, is what do I want out of my life.

Great Post, thanxs Shezz.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This is definetly insightful post! Wow, you really get into literature and seem to be able to understand where the writer is coming from. I consider myself pretty intelligent but I've never really thought about a poem or piece of literature with that depth. Of course I haven't really READ all the way through a book in a loooong time.

You definetly have a point when you say that people sometimes come here to get exact answer or rule for a certain situation. I find it hilarious when people think following the exact rules is the only way go about dating/attracting/meeting girls. Some people seem to think if they accidently call someone on the second day instead of the third or accidently give her a nice compliment or whatever, then they've totally messed up all chances with said girl. What people oftentimes forget is that lots of times the rules don't apply, HELL, sometimes it's better to break the rules. What people really need to do is rely on their own intuition and imagination and just go with the flow.

Of course coming here or reading other dating advice forums probably doesn't hurt if you need an idea of what your doing wrong or what to improve on (such as me)! But no RULE is Always the answer to every scenario!
 

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Lewis Caroll wrote "Alice in Wonderland" right?
then's its probably all about drugs. probably LSD. Maybe a bad acid trip.
 

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i mean, ths is the same person who said:
"one pill makes you larger, one pill makes you small, the ones mother gives you don't do anything at all"

say it with me, people, REHAB
 

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Originally posted by Marlimus
Lewis Caroll wrote "Alice in Wonderland" right?
then's its probably all about drugs. probably LSD. Maybe a bad acid trip.
It wasn't a LSD trip........ Alice found magic mushrooms growing out in that dark forest and she was hungry.....the rest well the rest is history
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ok ok I feel you man my post got f**ked up to.

What I see in this poem is a young inexperienced person facing his fears. Fear rears its ugly head in the form of "The Jabberwocky". The boy was being pushed by someone older and wiser to face his fears.

The sword was a tool that aided him it could have been anything but for the purpose of this post I’ll say the sword was "courage".

Now the boy stood up to his fears courage in hand and he abolished them from existence.

That is what the words of this poem spoke to me.........

Some AFC's here could learn a lot from this poem.

Your mind creates fear so your mind can destroy fear.
 

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Originally posted by The_Shezzler
BINGO! Another fine interpretation! Not only can this poem help, as it as just helped you right there but by using your imagination and really seeing something from YOUR point of view, you are taking a huge step forward.

That is how seduction should be viewed, for the Meta-Frame (ie Poem) is SEDUCTION, the boy is YOU, the Jabberwocky are your FEARS, the man is that father figure or wise sage in YOUR LIFE, and the sword isnt just the COURAGE that you possess, but it is the imagination and skills in which YOU ultimately use it!

Sarge On...
No offence but i got my seduction worked out. The poem didn't help me realize anything about my fears. That's just my interpretation.

Honestly I don't have any more fears. The two biggest fears anyone can have is fear of life and fear of death. Two opposite ends of the spectrum but the two ugliest fears that exist. Once you face them both and win all other fears become inconsequential.

Your fears are like a bag of bricks all you got to do is set them down.

I do see what you are getting at though and it is a good point.
 

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I got a question for you shezzler im going to ask you in private so check your PM's.
 

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The Golden Rule

A bold man imitating a coward will sleep with godesses. A coward imitating the bold will sleep alone.

Why people don't realize this, I don't know. Good post man.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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