"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Use The Tools You Have Learned...But Use your Head...Don't Over Think!!!

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At So Suave and the rest of the Manosphere, we learn a lot of diff. Concepts and Techniques...Some are more effective than others...some are more suited for certain people...Some are just straight GOLD...We need to remember to actually apply these concepts we have learned...In my 8 Years of this I did a lot of my own "Field Work" Figuring out what worked for me...latter coming to this site and others and realizing these r actually set concepts...

This is all great

One of the largest tools I learned is don’t over think...When in doubt don’t text is a great concept...It can only create more mystery, by you not contacting...It is one of our currencies...being "unavailable"...

The not over thinking also applies to the concepts...you can "over game" This isn’t necessarily an "amazing move" that always works for every situation...sometimes you just need to use your head and go see the entire outlook...every situation is unique...

An example of this...is one of my plates is a waitress...I texted her, she did not answer... I do not know her schedule...but I do know she has to keep her phone away when she works...So I gave her the benefit of the doubt and said "she was working"...went on with my day and set up a date with a diff. chick...8 hours later at around 11 pm...I get a text "Sorry I was working ;( Can we hang out tomm. ;)"

Instead of bugging out I gave the benefit of the doubt...this is something I learned and spoke about in this post ...Patience is a virtue....http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=205065

So be smart, use your head…and...

Keep Spinning,
J0504S
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events. Small minds discuss people"
 

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Its amazing how things work out when u apply your concepts and use your head aswell as excute at the right time....this thread I just made yesterday is living proof of this post I made a little while back.... http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=205779

Keep Spinning Boyz,
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