"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Use The Tools You Have Learned...But Use your Head...Don't Over Think!!!

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At So Suave and the rest of the Manosphere, we learn a lot of diff. Concepts and Techniques...Some are more effective than others...some are more suited for certain people...Some are just straight GOLD...We need to remember to actually apply these concepts we have learned...In my 8 Years of this I did a lot of my own "Field Work" Figuring out what worked for me...latter coming to this site and others and realizing these r actually set concepts...

This is all great

One of the largest tools I learned is don’t over think...When in doubt don’t text is a great concept...It can only create more mystery, by you not contacting...It is one of our currencies...being "unavailable"...

The not over thinking also applies to the concepts...you can "over game" This isn’t necessarily an "amazing move" that always works for every situation...sometimes you just need to use your head and go see the entire outlook...every situation is unique...

An example of this...is one of my plates is a waitress...I texted her, she did not answer... I do not know her schedule...but I do know she has to keep her phone away when she works...So I gave her the benefit of the doubt and said "she was working"...went on with my day and set up a date with a diff. chick...8 hours later at around 11 pm...I get a text "Sorry I was working ;( Can we hang out tomm. ;)"

Instead of bugging out I gave the benefit of the doubt...this is something I learned and spoke about in this post ...Patience is a virtue....http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=205065

So be smart, use your head…and...

Keep Spinning,
J0504S
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events. Small minds discuss people"
 

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Its amazing how things work out when u apply your concepts and use your head aswell as excute at the right time....this thread I just made yesterday is living proof of this post I made a little while back.... http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=205779

Keep Spinning Boyz,
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