"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Use the sun to your advantage

619joe

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Yes tanning does make you look better so use it while its here.Especially if you live in places where its like 25-30 degrees celcius atleast.

I used to be pretty white but now getting compliments is just so much of a confidence booster plus you can come up with SO MANY ROUTINES!I use tanning oil aswell (speeds up process) which helps greatly.

So get out of the house and DO WORK!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Groovy

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This is true a tan is a huge booster of confidence! Not only it's healthy to you to get some sun, but you'll get home and look in the mirror and you'll be like, damn I look awsome! :D Then next day you're gonna want to go to the beach AGAIN to look even better! :p And the cycle will continue!

So you'll gain confidence in yourself, you'll enjoy the time you spend on the beach more, AND you're going to spend less time at home and MORE time at the beach... I give it THREE thumbs up! :up: :cheer:
 

MrLuvr

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Sure, except when you get to your late 20s/early 30s and start to look like you are 10 years older. The sun is the Number ONE cause of premature aging. It damages your skin which leads to wrinkles, sagging skin.

I dont go out anywhere without a sun protector that blocks both uva/uvb rays.

If you want to look tanned get those bronzing creams or something, but stay out of the sun and away from tanning beds.
 

insidious

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MrLuvr said:
Sure, except when you get to your late 20s/early 30s and start to look like you are 10 years older. The sun is the Number ONE cause of premature aging. It damages your skin which leads to wrinkles, sagging skin.

I dont go out anywhere without a sun protector that blocks both uva/uvb rays.

If you want to look tanned get those bronzing creams or something, but stay out of the sun and away from tanning beds.
Yeah man, the sun is a tool best used wisely. And keep in mind that not everybody digs the tan look. I personally love it when women have clear, fair skin. Freckles and sunspots destroy the effect...clear is important. I could totally do without fair skinned women who spend way too much time sunning it up so that by the time they are 30 they look like alligators. I'm naturally darker and I tan well but I get enough tan to accentuate my natural color, not to darken to the point of leather. Frankly, I don't feel everyone is meant to be necessarily tan.
 

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It's a little hard to tan when you live in the middle of england which is cloudy all year aside from maybe one or two months. Two years in a row with non-stop rainy summers, WOOHOO
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yeah. I'm really faired skinned. So I'm out for 5 minutes and I burn. No joke. I'm white and I can't do anything about it. I don't like aging and cancer so I stick with being white for now. Ha it's funny my girl is dark skinned and I'm hella white so we're like salt & pepper haha
 

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The whole "it's healthy for you" thing is bullsh*t perpetrated by the tanning industry. It's only good or you to a certain point, and that point is well before you get any kind of tan. You'll look older sooner and increase your chance of skin cancer. So enjoy.
 

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dark skin actually turns me off for girls.
the whiter they are, the more attracted i am.
weird huh
 

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Me too.. I like the white skinned girls. the tanned ones over here tend to be slvts or have some other mental problem.
 

619joe

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We are not talking about what we prefer in girls fellas

Most if not all prefer tanned guys from what ive heard so its just a heads up to you guys
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Women like HEALTHY looking guys. That means no vampires and no Burt Renolds look-a-likes!!

Why lie in the sun like a baked potatoe, when you can get a tan while showing off your mad volleyball skillz!
 
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