Use eye contact to your advantage.

[Jair213]

I've read posts around here that you dont want to let a girl catch you checking her out because thats giving her attention or putting her on a pedestal in some type of way.

I disagree with this to a certain extent. Last week(monday) there was this new trainer at my gym were I go to. Shes an hb7, nice asss and thick legs. I would check her out at times and she noticed. She caught me looking like 2 times.(she was training an old lady when i was checking her out)

10 minutes later she comes up to me asking me watt I am working out today in a really shy way. She cuts the conversation short and says ''ok well nice meeting you ill let you work out now''

It was late also, trainers ussually leave at around 9 pm, and she stays, starts working out around were I am working out. All the spaces by the dumbells are taken so I start curling around the squat rack. She comes around were I am at and asks me ''are you using the squat rack'' me: no i am not .. her: I am going to use it but not now just wanted to know if you are using it .. me: ok. well have a good work out i have to get done with this its getting late.

i get back to working out.

this chick was literally following me around like a puppy.

5 days later i go in around the same time(cuz i ussualy go in the mornings) it was late around 8:30 pm.. again she stays to work out late when i was there, i dont give her no attention this time i dont check her out or anything of the sort but i notice her checking me out at times..

I asked one of the guys that work out there that i know that go every day around this time, I ask him if this chick ever stays to work out this late, hes response was ''nah bro only time ive seein her working out was monday and today''(coincidence?) i also find out shes being working here for about 3 weeks now.

watt some simple eye contact could do. crazy.:crackup:

im ma chat her up get the# and see were this go's. :cheer:

 

[Masculinity]

This woman wants you. Make a move or she will lose interest.

 

[foreverAFC]

some women definitely like being looked at, and will notice you if they see you checking them out, there is nothing wrong with looking at them, just dont stare nonstop like a creep but make it obvious

there have been a few women at work who have caught me checking them out and they went from being cold to friendly, or if they hadnt noticed me before they noticed when they saw me checking them out

 

[Your_Royal_Flyness]

This woman wants you. Make a move or she will lose interest.

I agree. A lot of guys on sosuave try too hard to psychoanalyze chicks who are trying to bang. And by the time you have courage enough to step to her, she's already onto someone else and has lost interest. Its the 90/10 rule. 10% of guys are banging 90% of the women. So unless you're in the "10" fellas, you need to move faster.

 

[zekko]

I've read posts around here that you dont want to let a girl catch you checking her out because thats giving her attention or putting her on a pedestal in some type of way.

Some also say that an alpha male makes eye contact with everyone he encounters.

I don't know about that, but I like to "accidentally" get caught checking a woman out. I like watching her get flustered and embarrassed. If she catches me I give her a little smile.

 

[SemperDJ]

I can't honestly grasp the idea of not making eye contact, eye's are the windows to the soul.
With a little knowledge of body language and psychology plus a decent pair of balls, eye contact does go a long way

 

[Masculinity]

OP, what ended up happening with this girl?

 

[Jair213]

OP, what ended up happening with this girl?

I go in the gym real early before 6 am. She's there in the after noons so I havent
Gotten the chance to do anything yet due to my schedule.

 

[Masculinity]

I go in the gym real early before 6 am. She's there in the after noons so I havent
Gotten the chance to do anything yet due to my schedule.

I say this will be an easy lay.

 

[Nycbkdude]

Women can lose interest quite easily especially since she works in a gym and has good lookng guys check her out often.
I used to be a trainer at Bally's and know women behavior at the gym pretty well.

I hope she closes up one night and asks you stay for a personal training session if u get my drift

 

[Nycbkdude]

Some also say that an alpha male makes eye contact with everyone he encounters.

I don't know about that, but I like to "accidentally" get caught checking a woman out. I like watching her get flustered and embarrassed. If she catches me I give her a little smile.

i do the exact same lol