"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Use a girl as a Wingman

Trance

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I found out this works wonders.

So im with a girl friend, who is my friend for some time, i can talk with her at ease about girls like if she was one of the guys. And since she's very bold, sometimes i use her to start a convo. I check out a girl, and tell her, "hey, this girl looks nice, go there and do the trick."

So she just goes there, says hello, do some small convo, or if its a foreign girl she will ask where they are from (i love meeting foreign girls); since she's a girl they never make that look when they are not into being aproached, and they find it very natural to be aproached by a girl and start a conversation.

Meanwhile im standing close, having a drink or talking to other friend, and she then calls me, and says: "this is my friend XPTO, this is "HByyy". If the girl had already checked me out, she will say "i think my friend would like to meet your" (this way making it seem im not needy, that i would like, but that im not in there just to PU like most of the guys), or if she didnt notice me, she will say "im here with my friend XPTO" and calls me over.
I just say hi, big smile and start from there. At some point my friend will go get a drink and i stay with the girl.

This way they dont see it coming, and i got to be in a convo with the HB without making her notice. So just do it guys, its a natural way to get to know a HB, beside she will see you are with girls with you (social proof).
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Cheiradawg

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Word. They are called "chick'n'wings."
 

MindOverMatter

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What's in there for her though?
easy, if some guy tries to hit on her and she wants him to go away, she signals you and you do the fake bf rescue.
 

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:rolleyes:

Had you read the bible you would realize there called pivots.

Your revelation is nothing new. Pat your-self on the back for being an ignoranus.

and READ THE BIBLE and SEARCH before you start posting revelations... It might help from cloggin up the fourms...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Don_Marko

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Originally posted by Trance
i use her to start a convo. I check out a girl, and tell her, "hey, this girl looks nice, go there and do the trick."
I'd say that's a pretty AFC approach, I mean it's different if your friend knows the girl already, but if you are actually getting one chick to go up to another for you.... :rolleyes: seems kinda pvssy way to handle your own business!
 

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MindOverMatter quote:
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What's in there for her though?
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easy, if some guy tries to hit on her and she wants him to go away, she signals you and you do the fake bf rescue.

-» Exactly.


Capi Crimini:

-» I read about 40% of the bible, the parts that were interesting for this stage of mine (so i cut out the LTR parts, the keeping interest, the convo parts, the sex parts, and so on).
Sure i read about pivots, but i nothing special, and so i posted the details on how i like to do it, and how i know its np to do it.

Don_Marko:

-» Not really. I diversify a lot the ppl who i go out with, so whenever im with a group of other, i always go for fun stuff. About using a girl as a pivot, i dont even have to say nothing, she know's me, she saw i was checking a girl out, and so she wanna have fun with the game too.



I've also done fun stuff like being in a chat with a group of girls, and after a while a girl comes, grabs me / kiss me on the neck, and says "you're getting too drunk", and takes me with her, while i smile at the girls. This usually makes them crazy, and they will try to check out if they can "steal" me latter.
 

DiSt0rTi0n_07

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I find that when you have a girl wingman, alot of chicks assume you are dating. You could definately have some fun with multiple women you meet tho :D --including your friend.
 
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