US marriage rate plunged to lowest level on record in 2018

[Who Dares Win]

Giving up is exactly what the (Elites) want, it also achieves nothing. There are plenty of perfectly good women out there.

Stop meeting women on tinder, Bars and nightclubs and you will motice they are very pleasant to be around.

True especially after our 30s...and theirs.

 

[wifehunter]

Yep. I think everyone even women know. Now they trying to put out studies to get guys excited about sharing wives.

wife sharing???...isn't that a 60's - 70's thing?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

wife sharing???...isn't that a 60's - 70's thing?

It's not no shortage of women. So it's weak behavior.

 

[wifehunter]

It's not no shortage of women. So it's weak behavior.

It's orbiters waiting line, to get their schlongs wet?

Shameful.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

instead of trying to fix the relationship, most couples go for thebeasy way out and divorce.

Bro this is not true. 80% of divorces are initiated by women. In reality it’s only women who are ****ing up marriages, not men. This is just a fact. No-fault divorce and there ya go—a generation of single moms raising bastard children who are dysfunctional af bc of the neuroticism of their mother. Truth is, WOMEN must compromise in a relationship, not men. Andwomen have been refusing to compromise since the 60s. We’re just now witnessing the effects of it. And men are either gonna play to be king of the hill, or they’re simply just gonna opt out, which is what most of us are doing. Men haven’t changed. Women did.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Bro this is not true. 80% of divorces are initiated by women. In reality it’s only women who are ****ing up marriages, not men. This is just a fact. No-fault divorce and there ya go—a generation of single moms raising bastard children who are dysfunctional af bc of the neuroticism of their mother. Truth is, WOMEN must compromise in a relationship, not men. Andwomen have been refusing to compromise since the 60s. We’re just now witnessing the effects of it. And men are either gonna play to be king of the hill, or they’re simply just gonna opt out, which is what most of us are doing. Men haven’t changed. Women did.

Alot of the fatherless homes were by design. The women knew they wanted a kid or two out a particular guy and that's all it was.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Alot of the fatherless homes were by design. The women knew they wanted a kid or two out a particular guy and that's all it was.

Yup. Lyndon B. Johnson and his ‘War on Poverty’, etc. Dude created the single mom welfare state that we see today, and that especially crippled the black community unfortunately. Disaster laws that favored irresponsible and reckless behavior from women i.e. “Of course we’ll give you money to help you raise your child! You just need to make sure that you aren’t married and that the father doesn’t live with them. We’ll even force him to pay you and your kids or else he will go to prison. You don’t even need to spend the money in the kids, just take it for yourself. After all, who doesn’t want $10,000 a month in ‘child support’, right? You don’t even need to prove that you’re spending any of it on the kids! And best of all, there’s nothing he can do about it!”

Lol.

And they say we’re ‘afraid of commitment’. Nah bitch, we’re afraid of divorce. And your reckless irresponsible behavior lmao

 

[Who Dares Win]

Alot of the fatherless homes were by design. The women knew they wanted a kid or two out a particular guy and that's all it was.

Agree and many dont even bother to hide it nowadays, they openly say it.

Just think about those single women in their mid 30s who buy anonimous sperm in a clinic and get themselves fecundated, they genuinely dont give a fvck about the kids well being.

 

[MatureDJ]

Something that gets overlooked is it’s not financially wise to get married this day and age. You lose a lot of tax breaks when you get married that you get when you’re single.

What? Please explain!

 

[R.U.G.]

Marriage is dying because of a woman's now choice of men from literally across the globe.. And we all know how well women make choices when emotions are involved. The current state of marriage is a disaster. Would you jump out of a plan with a parachute after you were told there's 55% chance it will not open? Stick to cohabs, raising a family w/o a State cert. or at worst, a religious ceremony, but with a notarized agreement that it does NOT constitute a legal binding marriage under the State. No person is worth rebuilding another person's assets and life just for a worthless piece of paper.

 

[Lookatu]

I feel bad for anyone wanting to get married these days. It's not the same as before and although I'm still married, I definitely would have to think twice about it these days.

Marriage is an institution that's been around for ages and times were different back then. I'm of the belief that marriage was never meant to last someone's lifetime because back then, not too many people lived long due to primitive healthcare, wars, famine, plague, etc.
And before all this legal stuff came about, it was really a marriage of the hearts and not some piece of paper. At least this is how I sell it to any gals I'm going out with. lol

 

[skinnyguy]

As the article implies, feminism backfired when it comes to marriage. The number of women claiming there are not enough “economically attractive men” out there is quite high.

Study blames lack of ‘economically-attractive’ men for declining marriage rates

Authors say many young men have 'little to bring to the marriage bargain'

www.independent.co.uk

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Ive read every angle there is known to man on that. Your angle is no different then the rest. The end is Christ and thats it for me. Everyone gets a turn as my pop always said. The great equalizer.

Lol no you didn’t read my angle because you don’t even know what it is.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Marriage is dying because of a woman's now choice of men from literally across the globe.. And we all know how well women make choices when emotions are involved. The current state of marriage is a disaster. Would you jump out of a plan with a parachute after you were told there's 55% chance it will not open? Stick to cohabs, raising a family w/o a State cert. or at worst, a religious ceremony, but with a notarized agreement that it does NOT constitute a legal binding marriage under the State. No person is worth rebuilding another person's assets and life just for a worthless piece of paper.

Just imagine how many men's sex and many acts of kindness stopped as soon as the ink dried on the marriage license.

 

[R.U.G.]

Just imagine how many men's sex and many acts of kindness stopped as soon as the ink dried on the marriage license.

It wasn't like that before the choice for new partners with online dating. That movement and add all of the bias against men in courts... You have to be nuts to get married now. I will say, it is a shame, because I still believe there are some good women out there. Maybe 1 - 3% that haven't been corrupted, but it's not worth the roll of the dice for me. I've had more than a few women walk from or vice-versa due to my refusal for that piece de papel.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

It wasn't like that before the choice for new partners with online dating. That movement and add all of the bias against men in courts... You have to be nuts to get married now. I will say, it is a shame, because I still believe there are some good women out there. Maybe 1 - 3% that haven't been corrupted, but it's not worth the roll of the dice for me. I've had more than a few women walk from or vice-versa due to my refusal for that piece de papel.

Do you think it was all online dating? Because the women were doing this thing against husbands and bf's, explicitly stating "just because i'm with you doesn't mean i owe you something". So she gets mad and locks up, if she feels "obligated for sex". You gave away your options, and because of that she cvcks your b1tchass. Cheats on you with guys her friends suggest and getting mad back pats. The entire environment sucks.

 

[R.U.G.]

Do you think it was all online dating? Because the women were doing this thing against husbands and bf's, explicitly stating "just because i'm with you doesn't mean i owe you something". So she gets mad and locks up, if she feels "obligated for sex". You gave away your options, and because of that she cvcks your b1tchass. Cheats on you with guys her friends suggest and getting mad back pats. The entire environment sucks.

I think the OLD phenomenon which leads to too much choice, feminism, technology and women thinking they only need men for sperm has led to the downfall of marriage. Single moms raising boys to be weak men hasn't helped either. A boy needs a strong male figure in his life. The no-fault divorce option has made divorce or starter husbands accepted in the world and there is no negative judgement for divorce, single moms or a broken home. It's a perfect storm for failure of an industry that was brought forward by religion and government has been the one who basically destroyed it. Marriage today and marriage a hundred years ago is totally different.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I think the OLD phenomenon which leads to too much choice, feminism, technology and women thinking they only need men for sperm has led to the downfall of marriage. Single moms raising boys to be weak men hasn't helped either. A boy needs a strong male figure in his life. The no-fault divorce option has made divorce or starter husbands accepted in the world and there is no negative judgement for divorce, single moms or a broken home. It's a perfect storm for failure of an industry that was brought forward by religion and government has been the one who basically destroyed it. Marriage today and marriage a hundred years ago is totally different.

Does family have a use in todays age?

 

[R.U.G.]

Does family have a use in todays age?

If people want it bad enough then yes. Problem is, things need to change as more and more men learn about the realities of women and marriage, the higher value men will push it off or just go it alone in life. I recall one time one of my gfs want marriage even if I said nope, never going to happen; she still persisted. I asked her one question. What benefit do I have if I marry you? She didn't and couldn't find an answer. All she said is I will get back to you. I am still waiting. Yes, women will walk, but look at the bright side. I'd rather they walk with me still having financial security now rather than after marriage and it costs me for the rest of my life.

Doubtful this was how marriage was supposed to be. First step, get rid of no fault divorce. Second step, each person keeps what they have in their personal names, personal. What is joint, well, that should be split down the middle.

Chances of this happening, very slim because then there's nothing in it for them once they are done with the guy. The sad fact is men and women love differently. Women can flip the off switch much faster than men. This is why a man always needs to keep frame and not give in on the big things. Compromise, yes, give in, no, and walk where and when necessary.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

If people want it bad enough then yes. Problem is, things need to change as more and more men learn about the realities of women and marriage, the higher value men will push it off or just go it alone in life. I recall one time one of my gfs want marriage even if I said nope, never going to happen; she still persisted. I asked her one question. What benefit do I have if I marry you? She didn't and couldn't find an answer. All she said is I will get back to you. I am still waiting. Yes, women will walk, but look at the bright side. I'd rather they walk with me still having financial security now rather than after marriage and it costs me for the rest of my life.

Doubtful this was how marriage was supposed to be. First step, get rid of no fault divorce. Second step, each person keeps what they have in their personal names, personal. What is joint, well, that should be split down the middle.

Chances of this happening, very slim because then there's nothing in it for them once they are done with the guy. The sad fact is men and women love differently. Women can flip the off switch much faster than men. This is why a man always needs to keep frame and not give in on the big things. Compromise, yes, give in, no, and walk where and when necessary.

Should social media and government be able to condition us against a proper family structure?