"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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URGENT QUICK Q: Does a text count as a returned cal

CaConfused

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Silly, but important!

Girl called me yesterday and left a voicemail.

I called her back. Left a voicemail.

She called me back at 9pm and left a voicemail. Then an hour later texted me saying "let's catchup sometime mister!"

I texted her 9am the next day and said "saw your road trip pics. looked fun!"

She replied "I always have a good time with Anne!"

So my question is: do I owe her a call back?

Please answer soon!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alvafe

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if you aks me since you both called each otehr and leave a voice mail (I never look it if anyone leave one).

after she says you should catch up I would jsut send the msg

this friday at 9 at ******

if she says ok good if not find something else, not biggie
 
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