"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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URGENT QUICK Q: Does a text count as a returned cal

CaConfused

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Silly, but important!

Girl called me yesterday and left a voicemail.

I called her back. Left a voicemail.

She called me back at 9pm and left a voicemail. Then an hour later texted me saying "let's catchup sometime mister!"

I texted her 9am the next day and said "saw your road trip pics. looked fun!"

She replied "I always have a good time with Anne!"

So my question is: do I owe her a call back?

Please answer soon!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Alvafe

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if you aks me since you both called each otehr and leave a voice mail (I never look it if anyone leave one).

after she says you should catch up I would jsut send the msg

this friday at 9 at ******

if she says ok good if not find something else, not biggie
 
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