"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Urgent Help . . New-ish Club Songs for a party . .

Forty0ztoFreedom

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I should have planned this out sooner, but I'm throwing a Halloween party with friends and kind of slacked on it the last few weeks, assuming everything was being planned . . Well, now its the day of, and I'm getting all the music together.

I'm fine with stuff from the 80's, 90's, Halloween songs, etc . . But I know nothing of today's music. I just don't really like it. But I want this party to be good, so what I need is . . what the hell are people listening to for music today? Specifically, club/dance music? Is there a CD compilation I could get? Or specific songs anyone can list that gets everyone on the dance floor?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Deep Dish

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Last night, I DJed a Halloween costume party. It was a house party of maybe about 15 people and I got the crowd moving. I played deep tech and progressive house music. It was pulsating.

Just off the top of my head, here are some songs I strongly recommend (and played last night). The songs are not fresh new but released within about the past year, but nobody will know.

Twilight by Adam K & Soha
Long Distance by Adam K & Soha
Surin by Quivver
Faxing Berlin by Deadmau5
The Longest Road by Morgan Page (Deadmau5 remix)
Aria by Tiger Stripes
Mango by Sasha Funke
Everytime by Lustral
 

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can't go wrong with Ghost N Stuff - Deadmau5

Fits halloween and is a big fvcking new tune. Youtube it
 
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