"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Alright, so I've been talking to this girl on and off, I met her through my friend and we're going to be hanging out for the first time tonight. Basically I'm going to drive up to her house (20 minutes away) at around 11:30 and she's going to sneak out and we're gonna hang out.

I have a few questions about this though

1. Is she basically saying "hey come over and fvck me" and is she basically expecting us to fool around?

2. If she does, do I beat around the bush and go take her somewhere (like a movie or something) and hang out with her for a little bit until we start messing around OR do I just cut to the chase and go at it a few minutes after I pick her up. I mean, this is the first time we're going to be hanging out with each other so this will be the first time I've seen her in real life, and she isn't really that innocent, I am probably assuming that she isn't a virgin and I know she fools around with other guys. If I do take her somewhere, what do you guys suggest (we're only 17)?

3. Should I bring a condom? I'm really not expecting it to go that far, considering this will be the first time we're hanging out, but then again she is a little freaky.

4. What should we talk about? I mean, should I just talk like I normally do with girls or should I make the topics more sensual considering I've got her 50% there.


Replies asap, thanks guys! :) I'll let you all know how this works out tomorrow morning!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ha talk about over thinking man.. LOOK this is bound to be a great first date. It's suspenseful for her, so she's going to be turned on by whatever you do. How about just take her for a ride and make some small talk for a little bit? If she seems excited and very responsive to you, then make the move. She obviously wants to do something if she's sneaking out to see you.

good luck
 
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Thanks man, but where should I take her that would keep up the suspense? I kind of want to have a gameplan here.
 
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Geh, does anyone have anything to say to ease my nervousness? She's pretty cute and I want this to work out and this is happening so sudden, I mean, just a little while ago we were just talking on the phone and now we're going to meet for the first time. Some reassurance or a good quote or something?
 
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Is there any place close to where you live that has a great view? For example my college parking lot has a great view of the city because its so high up. At night time it's very pretty looking at all the lights and stuff.

And yes always bring protection.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Maxtro said:
Is there any place close to where you live that has a great view? For example my college parking lot has a great view of the city because its so high up. At night time it's very pretty looking at all the lights and stuff.

And yes always bring protection.
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The problem is that I don't know any locals to where I'm going to pick her up, what's something universal that we could go do that would be anywhere that would fit with the risque theme of her sneaking out? I want this to be adventurous for her and exciting. What are some things like that we could do?
 
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