"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Urgent Help neede Please

sunkist

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Hey I am a Neewbie here I ws wondering If I could get some help from you guys, I was introduced to this chick as she's my friends friend and I think she likes me because she even gave me her number all in the name of asking me if I've got text. The day before she even was looking for me on facebook even. the next day she texted me to find out how I was doing, however I notice that she kinda flirts around whenever she's around me and my friends eg- head on shoulder leaning and body contact. I really don't know cuz I don't do flirts. is that normal chick behavior or she's a flirt. Please I need a smuch help as I can get .Thanks in advance.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Allurre

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A lot of women are like the one you just described. They are more open, social, outgoing.

Your next move is to ask her out on a 1 on 1 date.

Go for coffee, and get to know her better; but don't
give all of yourself away.
 
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