"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Urgent Help!!! Hard to get got me thinking I Quit!!!

Dearl

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Okay its this girl who I think is fine and I want to start a relationship with her. It no doubt she feel the same about me. She is a 9 or 10 I mean she is exclusive!!! I get to know her she is a nice girl but she barely says anything!!! I seen her at the school and she was talking to a guy who seems to stand in my way with going with her. I walk to the group and start a conversation asking her what she do this summer. "Nothing," she tells me. I crack a joke she laugh. Then dude get in the talk and ask her some questions. She loosin's up say words to him but when I ask questions I get "nothing" "ya" "no" How could i finish this deal and go with her.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Arizona iced tea

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she sounds boring to me... you might just need to find someone else.

or else just get some alone time. if she is into you there is a chance that she is just shy around you. open up to her and see if she does the same. if she doesnt, time to move on.
 

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she doesn't want to start a relationship with you as you would like/say, but you would have to make her want to. She is more interested in the other guy. Like Arizona said, she sounds kinda boring, or turned off, maybe she compensates for personality with looks..

Don't get so attached, especially to something that you dont actually have
 

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Aw well I know she is interested and she just might be a boring person which is messed up. to pretty to be one lol. so how do i stop the short answer madness!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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hang out with her and show her you are a fun guy. just go bowling or putt putt or something fun like that...
 

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I agree with Arizona......Dearl ur already making a mistake..u just want a relationship just because shes " Hott" stop chasing and start choosing...Find a girl that fits ur qualities and standards.. Stop trying to impress her.. Find out if she makes you feel good inside..etc.. for what i can tell already, she sounds boring, and seams aloof...And since im a junior in hs, theres $hit load of hot girls, but i dont care.. WHat i do is "Screen" and i actually have standards, and if she doesnt fit any of them, i just move on...Good Luck out there brotha
 
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